Vogue

Amber, you absolutely, your head is a sieve.

is what you are okay so no there wasn't that much fighting there that's fine yeah that's because you weren't at the races so it's 5-3 Vogue it's 5-3 okay wow yeah that's what she is so it's 5-3 going into week 9 so Vogue you've got to win the next two for it to be a tiebreaker absolutely easy okay

Okay, this is an Am I the Asshole from Anon.

Hi Vogue, Amber and Imagina.

I need an AITI, AITA, ruling because I'm genuinely torn.

I had one chicken dipper, Amber, which you would like from Marks and Spencer and I gave me Harper.

They're good.

I know, but I've got Harper and it doesn't even give the kids Harper.

One of my oldest friends is about to get married and if I'm honest, I feel deeply uncomfortable about it.

The problem is that I can't work out whether this is intuition, concern, grief or me being a judgmental bitch.

When we met years ago, we shared a lot of the same values, independence, personal growth, questioning the status quo, doing life on our own terms.

We were incredibly open with each other and I really admired her.

Today, our lives look completely different.

She's become much more traditional, religious, private and financially dependent on her partner.

Meanwhile, I'm a fiercely independent, child-free, self-employed feminist who gets more excited about someone starting a business than planning a wedding.

To complicate matters further, I know her partner before they got together and there were aspects of their relationships, particularly in the early days, that genuinely worried me.

He was also into red pill content at one point, which didn't exactly fill me with confidence.

There have been rules of his she's adhered to, but it didn't sound like it was her choice.

Hold on, what's red pill content?

Just like a weird, like a manosphere-y kind of thing.