Wendy K. Laidlaw

We always advocate a journey of listening and tracking what's going on inwards so that you can become a detective to try and figure out what is going on inside.

So to hear about these poor women innocently embarking on these procedures when they could have been turned around and put in remission naturally hurts my heart.

Equally, they weren't told of the side effects and the potential jumping from the chip pan into the fire analogy.

And this is where holding up the mirror to someone else's self starts with journaling and writing out the true feelings and emotions surrounding one's life helps.

And this is where holding up the mirror to oneself starts with the journaling and writing out one's true feelings and emotions surrounding one's life and how that helps.

But also holding up the mirror to the person or persons who are giving any advice to you that may be invasive or potentially

damaging and dangerous.

It is always encouraged for women to get multiple forms of advice from multiple reliable and trusted sources, all the while tuning back into their own instincts and their own body.

So as not to allow any egocentric, knife-happy professional to butcher and damage their bodies.

It's worth repeating, once an organ or a body part has been removed, it cannot be put back.

What is not told or discussed as much is the side effects of the downsides to having these barbaric procedures.

That's what we hear about and why I talk so much about holding the mirror.

I saw advertised and I literally mean advertised as this new found fan dangle way of operating on the abdomen of women by these robotic arms that are being advertised by mainstream medical facilities here in the UK.

Are some medical personnel too aloof to use their own hands, but to outsource to a mechanical device by which the interviewees own admission

on this programme said it was very hard to get control of, aka the robotic arms.

It just made me feel sick.

And again, what I'm talking about is what happens when it goes wrong.

If you have four robotic arms being manipulated by a surgeon behind a screen, literally like playing a video game with your body, and yet this body is living flesh.

And imagine if they sneeze or jolt or get a fright or slip.

What happens to the instruments in the robotic arms then that are inside your body?