Wendy K. Laidlaw

And it might be counterintuitive and you're right.

Maybe the boyfriend or the partner or the parents, whatever, might be very toxic and very negative.

So you have to be very mindful, you know, of who you ask to support you.

Because what we're looking to clear is, I refer to as the five P's now, the five poisons, produce, food, products, property, past and people.

So there's all these different elements that are toxic to us as women that we need to

as you mentioned to have that awareness about some of it we'll be able to control some of it we just need to let go what we can't control we let go and that's new because again women with endometriosis tend to be so caring so thoughtful they extend themselves out beyond their ability which is a beautiful quality but not if you're ill not yes yes as you said right at the beginning

You have to put yourself first because when I was in bed, bedridden and chronic levels of pain, and I wanted to save the world, I couldn't even save myself.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Like, uh, hello, Wendy, just tap on the shoulder.

Um, do you think maybe get yourself well first?

Yeah.

And I share that because I recognize it wasn't selfishness.

It was essentialness because then I could.

Yes.

Yeah.

Well, there's a discomfort in it, but I was saying to someone.

Yes.

Yeah.

There's a discomfort.