Wesley Huff

I think it could be.

I think men often find – we find our identity in the things that we do, right?

Well, we hear about this in that –

Unfortunately, we bought the lie that we are the sum of our actions.

This is why people lose their jobs when they let go of their careers.

They have identity crises because if we believe that we are the sum of our actions, we can put a lot of stock in something that is ultimately going to lead us like empty.

Same thing with relationships, right?

You watch any rom-com.

What is it almost always about?

Lonely guy, lonely girl.

They meet each other.

They fall in love.

At the end, everything works out.

And now, now their identity is fulfilled.

Well, I mean, all you have to do is to get married to know that that's not going to fulfill every desire and need you have, right?

I love my wife.

I love my marriage.

It's one of the best things that I've ever done.

But if I put all of my eggs in that basket...

It could very well and almost certainly will lead me astray, especially if that falls apart, especially when there are times of hardship and struggle.