Will

I kind of got myself in a little bit of predicament, and so I'll just get right into it.

My wife and I, we've been married for about five years, and...

In that time frame, I was able to reconnect with a friend of mine that I had made – a male friend of mine that I had made after high school and whatnot.

Started to kind of hang out with him and found out kind of through hanging out with him that his wife kind of made a pass at me.

And we have been in an affair now for the last probably –

eight months or so.

Um, we've obviously talked about, uh, just about everything under the sun.

And I guess I'm trying to figure out, um, you know, if I, am I interested in this person?

Um, or is it just the thrill of having an affair and, and doing something obviously that, you know, you're not supposed to do.

Um, and so I'm trying to, trying to figure out how to

figure that out because, you know, I just want a little bit of advice on trying to how to progress forward with that.

I'm calling to ask because, you know, in the time that I've chatted with this person, you know, we've obviously we've we've talked a lot more about the just the physical nature of of things.

And, you know, there's been times where we both had the idea that, you know, our lives potentially could be better with that other person.

But obviously, that's not something that I, you know, want to.

I don't want to jump into something or I don't want to technically pursue something.

And then turns out it was just because of the thrill of an affair.

I mean, my wife and I, we've had our struggles and our issues pre the involvement of the affair or my friend almost called it off a few different times.

So, yeah.

So we've been obviously dealing, like I had previously stated, we had been dealing with our own, obviously, struggles.

Right.