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William Costello

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557 total appearances

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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

The nightmare scenario can't do that.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

But that pendulum might swing and it might become a bit more loose that people can choose from a variety of different options, which is good.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

Right now, the main option seems to be boss bitch energy, but that might cool as it becomes a little less novel that women can do this.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

One thing I would like to see happen, but I'm less optimistic about, is that mate preferences...

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

are very, very sensitive to what we assign status to.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

So you can assign status to any number of things.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

So it's not outside the realm of possibility that... You mean for men or for men and women?

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

For men and for women, what makes it... There is some sex difference that physical beauty results in high status for women in a way that it doesn't necessarily for men.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

And kind of resources reduces in status and strength results in status for men in a way that it doesn't for women.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

But...

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

Status is to some degree arbitrary.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

So there's a really good book by an author called Will Storr called The Status Game.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

Really good book.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

And it talks about how there's this tribe and they assign status to whichever farmer in their tribe can

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

grow the biggest yams.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

And that is the high status thing to do.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

So it kind of shows you this flexibility of status.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

So what I'm optimistic about.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

Less likely.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

But what I mean is the male status, what we assign status to for men could be a bit more malleable.