Willow Defebaugh
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874 appearances
7 recordings
1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard 4d ago
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But the reality is it's like, it's a years long process of shedding the internal, um,
voices in your head that's like okay you can be trans but no one can know you're trans or you can be gay but not paint your nails right and it's like all of that shedding is to me such a part of the chrysalis of like the metamorphosis that i think all queer people go through and it's just again i don't even think it's really queer specific it's like
I think if you are wanting to live a life of authenticity, a life where you are getting to know yourself, then you are shedding the expectations that society has placed on you, that your family has placed on you, whatever it is.
For some people, that just happens a little bit more visibly.
But there's a lot of internal work that happens after the coming out.
I was speaking recently and someone asked, what is the non-binary to you?
And I was like, what is a sunrise?
What is a sunset?
We divide nature into night and day, but dawn and dusk are equally part of the cycle of creation.
Isn't a twilight the beauty of the world?
To me, the non-binary is like...
morning and eventide.
It's like a sky bleeding more colors than a palette could ever hold.
And like, isn't that gorgeous?
Like, don't we want a world that's free, that's not constrained by duality or labels?
Sunset is my favorite time of day for that reason.
I love to just watch the light change.
I love to watch the sky often turn pink and blue with white clouds.
And I feel like every day it's Mother Nature being like,
Can we talk about that?
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