Yumi Stynes
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1,797 appearances
13 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 6d ago
Yumi Stynes’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Do you think about the kind of relationship that you're modelling to your young daughter?
Mm.
This is clinical psychologist Dr.
Cassie Shields again.
She says staying together for the kids can often be counterproductive if you're modelling an unhealthy dynamic.
Then there's the F-word that makes it harder to leave a relationship that's not working.
Finances.
Looking at your own relationship, Dr.
Cassie says it's helpful to think about the three pillars of secure attachment that healthy relationships have.
The first one is being accessible to your partner.
The second pillar of secure attachment is responsiveness.
just numb.
In relationships where someone has quietly quit, those pillars of connection, accessibility, responsiveness, and emotional engagement have dissolved like a pillar of salt in a rising sea.
If you can say to your partner what you really want, like, I need you to take more initiative at home, or please actually have a crack at being alive and interesting, and you believe that they can step up, trusting that their heart is genuinely in it, Dr.
Cassie reckons things can change.
But in my experience, it's also powerful to take your energy elsewhere.
Because staying in a relationship you've checked out of costs you something too.
If
персона де аню.
This is Elodie again, our mother of two, who is still grieving the relationship of the past, even though she's been checked out for the better part of five years.
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