Zach Morris
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3,776 appearances
15 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2017
last heard Jul 2025
Zach Morris’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Here's when I'll reconnect with you, or here's when I'd like to try again, or I'd even love to offer you the space to brainstorm on what you'd like to do in place of this right now.
If I'm not going to be that person, that's going to kind of listen to what you're saying anymore right now.
And I think that's really important.
And that's also a modeling for our young people that we do get to decide sort of where we end in the rest of the world begins, right?
Where I'm saying like, this is my boundary.
And if I can keep that boundary in I statements, where it's not about what you're doing or how you're acting, and they really just keep it to me.
This is what my experience is.
This is what my choices.
This is what my needs are.
Here's the action I'm going to take.
That, I think, provides a really increased opportunity for that to be accepted by the person outside of us without thinking that we're abandoning them or we're not willing to be with them through this hard time that they're having.
Because I think these can be default thinking as well.
And that's something I want to be extra sensitive to with people that I'm working with is I never want you to have this experience of abandonment in a scenario like that.
And so how can I really communicate to you what I'm doing, where I'm providing you the best access point to see this as something different than abandonment?
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No, I think what I would say is just about this co-regulating piece and this relating piece is that it just can only move at the pace of the person that you're working with.
It's not going to move at the pace I want or the pace I envision or the pace that works for me.
And so what I really encourage parents and families is to really tap into this ultimate practice of patience within that and that
There's so many things in these scenarios that you want to share with your child and so many perspectives and so many solutions.
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