Zach Morris
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3,776 appearances
15 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2017
last heard Jul 2025
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And sort of the last thing I would say within that is,
Although the effort that I think we're taking here is to create shifts and create changes in thinking, in behavior, in manifestation, those changes that we're trying to facilitate become secondary to the relationship that we're cultivating.
And so like you're saying, if we get into these scenarios and...
And in my attempts to help you regulate and in my attempts to relate with you, I actually push us too far, too fast.
And now you now you as the individual have sort of spun out again.
And I've I've actually been a catalyst for for putting you back in that place of dysregulation.
I'm actually like taking steps backwards because now you've had, you've actually had another experience of seeing that this doesn't help.
And this doesn't work by, by sharing yourself and talking with adults and things like that.
And so I would rather not,
Again, see that hard to watch behavior for longer than trying to change it right away because I might be re-traumatizing that person throughout the whole process and therefore actually pushing that change and that shift out exponentially.
Thank you, Debbie.
It's a pleasure to be on and always enjoy my conversations and happy to also hear from many parents out there on specific things that are happening for themselves.
If anybody wants to email me or get a hold of me in any way like that, I'd love to hear what people are dealing with and navigating and being able to sort of inform us for future conversations and things like that.
Hi Debbie, thanks for having me as always.
Yeah, it's it's such a good question.
I I think you hit a lot of things I'm I'm gonna kind of touch on a little bit as well, you know, and I and I and I think you know, one of those things being is is that you're kind of talking about, you know, especially at this age and stage, like being our kids as consultant, where like this is the time where, yeah, like I I can't be too attached about what you're gonna do or not do.
Because we're just out of that sort of compliance dynamic, right?
And this is the time to, like you said, provide information, provide our perspective if they're open to hearing it, right?
There this kind of gets into that land of sort of consent too.
Like are they even, you know, open to like hearing these things from you or not, right?
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