Zerk

And we are now in a day and age where we're able to find any kind of

examples tailored examples that are usually not even real they're made to be content for you to base an entire relationship on to base an entire person on and so we create these standards that are just not not something anyone is going to be able to live up to

And I'm sure you've experienced this where you like see somebody and in your mind you create a whole life with that person.

Which is so insane that you could do that.

That's kind of crazy.

That's kind of awesome that our brain has this capability of just seeing someone and being like, I can envision an entire existence of us living somewhere on the coast of California, you know, sipping a matcha because it's smoother, it's nicer, you know.

And eating a little cheesecake, whatever.

And you tell me how much you love me.

Even though I haven't even spoken a word to you.

Or maybe that's like psycho behavior, and if it is, call me out, okay?

But I'm sure you've done that too, where you're like, oh my gosh, this is the perfect person.

No, it's not.

No, it's not.

You're going to get messed up, buddy, you know?

Yeah, the brain is an interesting thing that I'm still trying to figure out, and I'm still trying to wrap my head around, and I think that with...

loving somebody and dating and all these things I know a lot of a lot of us are really like what do we do and and for me that was the same case like I was so jaded by the options I was so jaded by like am I gonna have to basically like fight through my relationship as in like emotionally battle all the time but I think we're over complicating a lot of it

And we are romanticizing the person instead of looking for something that's good and works.

You are looking at a magazine, seeing like that super expensive watch and being like, oh my gosh, this is what it is.

I need this.

but your little Casio, you know, the Casios that have like the little, the digital watch, it tells you the time and it works great.