Zerk

They're still hard.

But...

What?

It is better when it's simple.

Simplicity.

Simplicity is so good.

And what I started to do as I got older was romanticize less.

Because romantization, I think...

it makes things very complicated because you see your life, you see somebody else and your life together in a certain way when in reality you cannot predict anything that will happen.

I'm just telling you right now.

Maybe you can look at your habits and you can look at the way that you are.

That can be a good predictor, but you cannot like, you're not going to know what it's going to look like

Because your future is a culmination of all the things that happen, all this little slivers amongst your life that build up to something.

So in that case, like you're creating all of these things in your mind of like, I'm going to do this.

You know, we're going to move to this country.

We're going to live this life.

Then we're going to have these, these kinds of kids.

And you know, we're going to have a perfect life.

We're going to, this is going to be great.

We're going to be like together forever.