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I want to get into that.

Hey, do you know anybody who, you know, has like a successful relationship?

I'd love to talk to them so I don't keep getting my heart broken.

Use the world around you.

Put it out that you want to change and do not tell people that you're looking to change.

Act on it.

If you do need something to confide in, this is what has also helped me is get a journal.

Get a journal, get any kind of journal.

It doesn't need to be a specific one.

It can literally, if you take a clump of paper and just fold it, have something that you write in and that you talk about what you want to do in that journal with yourself.

You are the only person that is conversing about this thing.

Because for a lot of us, when we realize that we are lost, we tell people we're going to make these kinds of changes.

We're going to do this.

We're going to lock in on this.

And it never happens.

And then you get upset at yourself and the cycle continues.

So don't share anything.

Put it in your journal.

Tell yourself like, all right, I'm working on this.

I'm really, I really hate college.