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But if you sit in your peril, if you sit in your jail of like, I am just lost, I don't know what to do, and my life is cooked, you will stay there.

You will stay there because you have been on that path so long that the idea of going and starting something new will be uncomfortable.

That is the truth of it.

I wish that there was another thing I could tell you that it will be easy, but it will not be easy, but that is why you need to do it.

The solution is simple.

It's just not easy, but it's simple.

It's telling yourself you will try it.

It's telling yourself, okay, I'm going to learn about myself.

I've been so wrapped up in like what, well, what is a good grade?

What is a good, you know, progress report at work?

What is a good thing to be called, you know, by other people?

How do I do that for myself?

What is my standard?

Like what makes me happy?

You have to go down that.

And the truth of the matter is,

You have two options.

You either stay the same or you change.

You know, people try to make it very complicated.

And it's more complex, yes, in terms of like, obviously everyone's situation is different.