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There are certain things that go on in my life that I'm just like, ah, like I just can't seem to get a grasp on them. Of course. But I've let go of certain patterns because I want to welcome other ones. I had to donate the bad clothes. to the goodwill, to the salvation army, to the savers, so I can go and get myself one piece that I really like that I know I'm going to use.
There are certain things that go on in my life that I'm just like, ah, like I just can't seem to get a grasp on them. Of course. But I've let go of certain patterns because I want to welcome other ones. I had to donate the bad clothes. to the goodwill, to the salvation army, to the savers, so I can go and get myself one piece that I really like that I know I'm going to use.
So I can develop a good habit. So I can develop a good appreciation for myself so that when times get tough, I'm not trying to grab at straws. I know who I am and I know I'm going to be okay. I think everyone does need to have a moment in their life that brings them to kind of a rock bottom.
So I can develop a good habit. So I can develop a good appreciation for myself so that when times get tough, I'm not trying to grab at straws. I know who I am and I know I'm going to be okay. I think everyone does need to have a moment in their life that brings them to kind of a rock bottom.
So I can develop a good habit. So I can develop a good appreciation for myself so that when times get tough, I'm not trying to grab at straws. I know who I am and I know I'm going to be okay. I think everyone does need to have a moment in their life that brings them to kind of a rock bottom.
Maybe that's an unpopular opinion, but I do think that there has to be a moment where you feel like, I want to change. Where you ask yourself, is that enough? Is that enough suffering? Is that enough pain? And your answer isn't, No, I mean, yeah, but I want to keep... No, no, no, no, no. Your answer is, yes, I'm done. That was terrible. I'm done. I want to change.
Maybe that's an unpopular opinion, but I do think that there has to be a moment where you feel like, I want to change. Where you ask yourself, is that enough? Is that enough suffering? Is that enough pain? And your answer isn't, No, I mean, yeah, but I want to keep... No, no, no, no, no. Your answer is, yes, I'm done. That was terrible. I'm done. I want to change.
Maybe that's an unpopular opinion, but I do think that there has to be a moment where you feel like, I want to change. Where you ask yourself, is that enough? Is that enough suffering? Is that enough pain? And your answer isn't, No, I mean, yeah, but I want to keep... No, no, no, no, no. Your answer is, yes, I'm done. That was terrible. I'm done. I want to change.
Because it's easy to kind of be like, oh yeah, it would be a good thing if I didn't self-sabotage myself in a relationship or I didn't overshare. But it isn't until you lose something that you valued tremendously or you have somebody go against you or I don't know, maybe you have just a sudden shift in your perspective.
Because it's easy to kind of be like, oh yeah, it would be a good thing if I didn't self-sabotage myself in a relationship or I didn't overshare. But it isn't until you lose something that you valued tremendously or you have somebody go against you or I don't know, maybe you have just a sudden shift in your perspective.
Because it's easy to kind of be like, oh yeah, it would be a good thing if I didn't self-sabotage myself in a relationship or I didn't overshare. But it isn't until you lose something that you valued tremendously or you have somebody go against you or I don't know, maybe you have just a sudden shift in your perspective.
Maybe somebody says something that makes you realize this person does not care. They don't. I've told them you're being super cold to me. Like I, I need affection. And they're like, yeah, I guess. I don't know. Yeah, I guess. I don't know. What do you mean? Yeah, I guess. I don't know. I need this. Yeah, cool. I don't know about you. That's enough for me. That was a sign. I got to change.
Maybe somebody says something that makes you realize this person does not care. They don't. I've told them you're being super cold to me. Like I, I need affection. And they're like, yeah, I guess. I don't know. Yeah, I guess. I don't know. What do you mean? Yeah, I guess. I don't know. I need this. Yeah, cool. I don't know about you. That's enough for me. That was a sign. I got to change.
Maybe somebody says something that makes you realize this person does not care. They don't. I've told them you're being super cold to me. Like I, I need affection. And they're like, yeah, I guess. I don't know. Yeah, I guess. I don't know. What do you mean? Yeah, I guess. I don't know. I need this. Yeah, cool. I don't know about you. That's enough for me. That was a sign. I got to change.
I got to change and I got to stop. I got to stop being so quick to get into things. I got to stop idealizing people. Oh my gosh, man. That's a whole can of worms. But we are so good at trying to make a person we're interested in seem like a shiny object. They seem like the World Cup and you want to be messy and kiss it and be like... When in reality, you don't know them.
I got to change and I got to stop. I got to stop being so quick to get into things. I got to stop idealizing people. Oh my gosh, man. That's a whole can of worms. But we are so good at trying to make a person we're interested in seem like a shiny object. They seem like the World Cup and you want to be messy and kiss it and be like... When in reality, you don't know them.
I got to change and I got to stop. I got to stop being so quick to get into things. I got to stop idealizing people. Oh my gosh, man. That's a whole can of worms. But we are so good at trying to make a person we're interested in seem like a shiny object. They seem like the World Cup and you want to be messy and kiss it and be like... When in reality, you don't know them.
You do not know a single thing about them. You are assuming everything about them. I remember the moment that made me change was when I visited my grandfather in Poland. He was in really poor health and it was kind of, it was raps. He was a shell of a human being and it was really, really hard for me to see that.
You do not know a single thing about them. You are assuming everything about them. I remember the moment that made me change was when I visited my grandfather in Poland. He was in really poor health and it was kind of, it was raps. He was a shell of a human being and it was really, really hard for me to see that.
You do not know a single thing about them. You are assuming everything about them. I remember the moment that made me change was when I visited my grandfather in Poland. He was in really poor health and it was kind of, it was raps. He was a shell of a human being and it was really, really hard for me to see that.