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Is it normal to feel consumed by your relationships, by your friendships, by your partner?
Is it normal to feel like every time your parents call you, you need to pick up and if they are complaining about some family drama, you need to listen even though you're on a date, even though you're busy with your own life doing your own thing?
Why is it that we feel like we owe so much to people?
And why is it that when we want a piece of our own pie, when we just want to kind of exist in our own skin for a little bit, it's deemed selfish, it's deemed vain, it's deemed ungrateful?
I don't think it's any of those things.
I think that I allow people to walk a little bit close to my boundaries.
And sometimes when they cross them, I kind of ignore it.
But I have come to realize if you don't call things out, if you don't mention the fact that someone is calling you at midnight to complain about their boyfriend that you told them you just shouldn't be with them.
That's all I have to say.
And they keep doing it because they want some kind of sympathy because they want you to be like, oh, it's OK.
It's going to be fine.
You got to put your foot down.