Zerky

Oh, because I was dealing with this problem.

Because, oh, this person needed my support.

Bro, you need to support yourself.

I understand your friend is in deep trouble.

But there's only so much you can do.

And if you have done everything that you can, what more can you ask for?

What more is there?

But does that make me a bad friend or a bad partner, Zerky?

Yeah, I mean...

It depends on your definition.

But to me, I think if you can't take care of your own garden and tend to your own, how does that give you any ability to tend to somebody else's?

And also, when did that ever become your responsibility?

A relationship should supplement your life.

It shouldn't make you stay up until 2 a.m.

wondering, oh my goodness, what if this happens?

What if they do lose their job?

What if they don't find a new job?

Oh my goodness, we're going to be cooked.

That should not be the case.

You should be able to support them and you too should be able to be strong separately so you can come together and have something really special.