Zerky

That being said though, life is life.

If you don't think your partner is going to go through a moment where, you know, they lose somebody that's close to them.

Or they feel lonely.

They feel isolated.

You two aren't as intimate.

You're wrong.

It isn't all peaches and rainbows.

After, you know, things start to happen, you realize, wow, this is what a relationship is for.

It's for that support.

It's for having that other person.

But also, it's not to abuse someone.

So many people get in relationships and treat their partner like a soundboard or treat them like just a therapist that they can throw every problem at.

And as someone who has done that and also has received that, it's not fair.

It's not fair to either party.

Because let's be honest, you bombarding them with problems, you're not trying to solve any of them.

And there's a good chance if they're coming to you with all of theirs, they have no interest in solving any of them.

They just want somebody to pat their head or their back or rub their shoulder.

It's okay.

It's okay.

And you know what?