Zerky

Maybe that's what you need.

And I think it would be good if you were up front with that.

If you didn't disguise it as like, I need your advice.

And you said, yo, I need some support right now.

Can you just hear me out?

Can I rant to you for like two minutes and then we'll keep going with our day?

Because this is my fault too.

I'm an obsessive person.

If somebody shares me those kind of details, I'm going to ask about it.

I'm going to want to keep tabs on it.

And maybe that's my bad.

Maybe I have to be more forgiving and just let go of things and be like, you know what?

Not my problem.

That's just not my problem.

But if you hold on to your partner's issues really strongly, you have to learn where your place in it is, which is you are still an outsider to these problems.

And it's good to observe them.

It's okay to give your two cents when your two cents is needed.

But you do not need to solve them for somebody else.

You need to focus on where your boundaries are.

You need to focus on what is the line.