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Yeah, man, it's like human beings are going to disappoint you.
And I often say like disappointment is the gap between expectations and reality.
And the only way to kind of deal with it sometimes, and this sounds negative, but it's not, is to just kind of like lower your expectations of other people.
If you expect if you expect all or most people to be courageous or to be entrepreneurial or to be creative or to be super free thinking or whatever, like you're always going to be disappointed because most people just are not these things, at least not on a day to day basis.
I think when push comes to shove once in a while, you know, you might get someone who surprises you and, you know, they kind of rise up to the occasion.
But the average person is average.
Most people are typical in these things.
And most human traits exist on something like a bell curve or a normal distribution.
So for every hyper courageous person you have, you have a hyper coward.
And most people are somewhere in the middle.
And I wouldn't say the middle is particularly brave and courageous.
Right.
There's a reason why we celebrate heroes, why we celebrate courage, why we because it's rare.
Right.
If it were just, oh, everyone is super courageous.
Everyone is brave.
Then it's nothing to it's nothing to praise or celebrate.
Right.
Why are we like, oh, that person is a genius.
Oh, that person is like outstanding because they're they're an outlier.