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Zuby

πŸ‘€ Speaker
602 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Yeah, man, it's like human beings are going to disappoint you.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

And I often say like disappointment is the gap between expectations and reality.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

And the only way to kind of deal with it sometimes, and this sounds negative, but it's not, is to just kind of like lower your expectations of other people.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

If you expect if you expect all or most people to be courageous or to be entrepreneurial or to be creative or to be super free thinking or whatever, like you're always going to be disappointed because most people just are not these things, at least not on a day to day basis.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

I think when push comes to shove once in a while, you know, you might get someone who surprises you and, you know, they kind of rise up to the occasion.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

But the average person is average.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Most people are typical in these things.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

And most human traits exist on something like a bell curve or a normal distribution.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

So for every hyper courageous person you have, you have a hyper coward.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

And most people are somewhere in the middle.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

And I wouldn't say the middle is particularly brave and courageous.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Right.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

There's a reason why we celebrate heroes, why we celebrate courage, why we because it's rare.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Right.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

If it were just, oh, everyone is super courageous.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Everyone is brave.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Then it's nothing to it's nothing to praise or celebrate.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Right.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Why are we like, oh, that person is a genius.

Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley
Why Most People Are Cowards (And How to Not Be One) | Zuby

Oh, that person is like outstanding because they're they're an outlier.