Alcohol Doesn’t Bring You Closer — It Keeps You From Being Seen Alcohol doesn’t bring you closer. It keeps you from being seen. Most people believe they drink to relax, connect, or feel closer at the end of the day. But what if alcohol isn’t creating intimacy at all — what if it’s helping you avoid the consequences of honesty? In this episode, we explore how alcohol quietly replaces emotional safety with silence, how “keeping the peace” can last for decades, and why stopping drinking doesn’t magically fix relationships — it simply brings sensation back online. This isn’t about blame or labels. It’s about noticing the role alcohol plays in postponing truth, intimacy, and integrity. What This Episode Covers Why alcohol doesn’t avoid conflict — it avoids the consequences of honesty How silence can masquerade as stability in long-term relationships The “morphine effect” alcohol has on emotional and physical intimacy Why sex, closeness, and desire often feel safer with alcohol involved What actually returns when alcohol is removed — and why that feels confronting If evenings are when things go quiet — after work, after dinner, when you finally stop moving — that’s not accidental. The Work-to-Home Protocol exists for that exact window. It helps you interrupt the moment alcohol usually steps in to soften what hasn’t been said yet. You don’t need to fix anything. You just need a different way to land. You can find the Work-to-Home Protocol at: thestrivemethod.com Don’t act on what came up. Don’t start a conversation tonight. Just notice what alcohol has been carrying for you — and what becomes louder without it. Awareness alone starts to change the relationship. #1000DaysSoberPodcast #LeeDavy #STRIVE #TheTruthAboutAlcohol #AlcoholAndRelationships #EmotionalIntimacy #AlcoholAwareness #WorkToHome #NervousSystem #AlcoholAndConnection

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