This week on the podcast we begin a month-long focus on emotional maturity, resilience, or fluency. Understanding the connection between your emotions and your drinking habit is key to changing your relationship with alcohol. Becoming more emotionally mature is a learnable skill. Here are some keys to becoming more emotionally mature: #1)You have to be willing and believe that your are capable of feeling every emotion you have…not just the happy, joyful, calm and pleasant ones…but the angry, sad, awkward, uneasy, nervous, bored,completely unpleasant ones. #2) Being more emotionally mature means you can articulate your feelings and describe what happens in your body when you experience your emotions. #3) You can allow uncomfortable emotions to be there without trying to change them. Resources Mentioned: Episode #11 Episode #12 Buy Breaking the Bottle Legacy: How to Change Your Drinking Habits and Create A Peaceful Relationship with Alcohol on Amazon or most online retailers. US Kindle US Paperback UK Kindle UK Paperback Apple Books Barnes & Noble Kobo Join my private FB group Alcohol Minimalists here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/changeyouralcoholhabit Has this podcast helped you? Please leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts! Follow me on Instagram: @AlcoholMinimalist You can grab two free chapters of my upcoming book here! Have you grabbed your free e-book, "Alcohol Truths: How Much is Safe?" Get it here. Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older: No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcohol Abstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinking Following these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

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