The fastest way to become more magnetic is not to chase him harder – it’s to stop making him the center of your universe. In this episode, Lauren breaks down how “black cat energy” and magnetic feminine energy actually work, and why getting back into yourself can shift the entire dynamic with a man – or make you far more attractive if you’re single. If you’ve felt yourself over-giving, overthinking, or slowly disappearing inside a relationship, this episode is the reset you need. Lauren gets specific about how self-abandonment starts, why men tend to mirror the energy you focus on, and how that can quietly change the way you’re treated. You’ll discover: Why pouring too much into a relationship can unintentionally dim your magnetism How to identify the “dream version” of yourself in vivid detail The small, practical actions that start bringing you back to that version now Why becoming less available for the right reasons can change pursuit and attraction The difference between grounded feminine energy and playing manipulative games Lauren also reframes black cat energy as something much deeper than being cold or detached. It’s about being centered, self-respecting, and fully alive in your own life – with or without a partner. She shares how habits like late nights, constant scrolling, and over-explaining can drain your energy, and why high standards, boundaries, rest, purpose, and self-focus are what make you feel radiant again. The bigger message is simple: when your cup is full, everything changes. Perfect for women who want to feel more confident, more desirable, and more aligned in love – without losing themselves in the process. Please subscribe, leave a rating, and write a review! Follow Lauren everywhere at @LaurenSalaun

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