YERRR – the boys linked up with Healthy Gamer GG for a marathon deep dive into the mind, ego, and trauma. Dr. K makes this episode part therapy, part philosophy, part “bro-yap,” and it gets real. Dr. Alok Kanojia and the boys are talking: – Mid-life crisis and almost becoming a monk – Emotional baggage, procrastination, and why diagnoses don’t always work – Guilt, sadness, autism spectrum, and male anger – Talk therapy vs. podcasts, estrogen, and Red Pill 2.0 – Psychedelics, meditation, breathwork, and power posing – Regulating ambition, ego, and the shame/anxiety cocktail we all carry It’s raw, funny, and kind of life-changing. All that and more on this week’s episode of FLAGRANT. INDULGE. 0:00 Intro 1:39 Dr K's middle life crisis 5:55 Studying to be a monk + Success 9:24 Ashram, Purging + Feeling Control 15:24 Brown love + Actions over results 20:44 Learn everything before specialising 22:54 Ego driving decisions + Emotional baggage 29:56 What is the mind? Yogic method 41:53 Emotional coping + Not even trying 49:38 Diagnoses aren't working 51:07 Understanding motivation + Ping Ponging Content 55:05 Procrastination + IQ v EQ 59:42 Samskara & Guilt + Male Sadness & Anger 1:09:17 Autism spectrum + Sadness 1:13:14 Talk therapy is gold standard for women 1:16:30 Podcasts let bros YAP + Estrogen 1:20:26 Demonising homosexuality + Overburdening wives 1:24:43 Aversion to touch, ARFID + Kiss test 1:29:52 Fixing samskara + Red Pill 2.0 1:39:19 CBT, Looping + Awareness is enough 1:45:32 Psychedelics + Dealing with that stuff 1:51:16 Confidence, Disabling Ego + Ket v meditation 1:57:44 How to meditate, EFT + Power posing 2:06:52 Breathwork + Emptying the well 2:09:00 Anxiety & Shame 2:30:37 Regulating ambition + Responsibility Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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