Andy Wells

Day 153: Radical Ideas: Go Outside More

15 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Turn off my podcast, get off my website, turn off your computer and go outside. SHOWNOTES:Radical's YouTube video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v...

Day 152: When Should I Lower or Raise My Standards? (The Ebb & Flow of Standards)

14 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Andy answers the age-old question, as to when you should raise or lower your standards when it comes to girls.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://theinnerwinne...

Day 151: How You Can Encourage Others (Even If You're a Total Newbie)

13 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How sharing a little bit of encouragement helps you retain girls, build an awesome life for yourself and make the world a better place.SHOWNOTES:Coach...

Day 150: How to Take the Lead Without Being Controlling

12 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How do you differentiate between taking the lead/being masculine... vs being too controlling?SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:How I Use the Bathmate (Guide)No More ...

Day 149: How to Avoid STDs (Are They as Scary as People Make Out?)

11 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are STDs something to freak out over - or are the risks overblown?SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateHonest Guide to STDs (by M...

Day 148: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 3]

10 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 3]Want to check out Counter Strike...

Day 147: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 2]

09 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 2]Want to check out Counter Strike...

Day 146: What Counter-Strike Can Teach Us About Self-Improvement [Part 1]

08 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 1]Want to check out Counter Strike...

Day 145: Even More Ways to Make Cold Approaches FUN

07 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

My final summary on how to have fun with your approaches.SHOWNOTES:Ask for a number when you run out of things to say:https://www.buzzsprout.com/12793...

Day 144: Use an Online Notebook to Jot Down Ideas & Inspiration

06 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Write ideas down so you can let them go and remain focused on your main mission.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump (use my link to support the show):https://thei...

Day 143: Don't Be Average - Don't Accept Society's Blueprint For Your Life

05 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Don't fall into the trap of mindlessly doing what everybody else is doing - go your own way.SHOWNOTES:Article version of this podcast (includes p...

Day 142: Radical Ideas: Change Your Environment

04 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When you hate where you are or the people around you, do something to fix it.SHOWNOTES:Radical's Original Video/YouTube Channel:https://www.youtu...

Introducing, The Winner’s Club! (Weekly accountability & support)

04 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Want ongoing weekly accountability, direct access to me for advice/motivation/questions, and a community of like-minded guys on the path to kicking as...

Day 141: Should I Cold Approach or Use Tinder?

03 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Should you focus on getting laid in person, or via online dating?SHOWNOTES:Bathmate Pump:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/How to Get Laid on Ti...

Day 140: You Are Allowed to Walk Away (Cold Approach)

02 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If you find yourself starting to hate a lot of the conversations you're having during your cold approaches, I have the antidote.Want coaching wit...

Day 139: Ask EVERY Girl for a Phone Number (Cold Approach)

01 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Yep, you should be asking 100% of the girls you hit on for their phone number; even if the conversation goes horribly.SHOWNOTES:How I Beat My Approach...

Day 138: Even More Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 3/3]

31 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Final round of questions to ask yourself if you want to lead an epic, amazing life.Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinn...

Day 137: More Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 2/3]

30 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/Even more questions to ask yourself:What are ...

Day 136: Questions to Ask Yourself [Part 1/3]

29 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/Questions to ask yourself:Why does Andy (and ...

Day 135: Why Am I Getting Shit Tested?

28 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hint: If you're getting shit-tested a tonne, it's because you look like absolute trash. No stress; just improve your appearance and keep wor...

Day 134: Stop "Shoulding" Yourself.

27 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why you should stop saying should. Or not. Do whatever you WANT, not what you think you "should" do.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump:https://killyour...

Day 133: Self-Sabotage and Self-fulfilling Prophecies

26 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

YOU are most likely the only thing standing in the way of your own success. So stop fucking it up.SHOWNOTES:You Get What You Subconsciously Believe:ht...

Day 132: Have Fun During Your Approaches

25 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Some easy ways to make approaching/daygame a little more fun, and a little less of a chore.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/...

Day 131: Merry Christmas, Plans for My Website/Podcast, a Look Back at 2020

24 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A retrospective look back at 2020, as well as my plans for my site and podcast going forward. Exciting things to come!SHOWNOTES:Work/Life Balance is B...

Day 130: Couples Shouldn't Blindly Jump into a 3some

23 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why it's imperative you take a little extra time before getting into a 3some, if you're in a longterm relationship with a committed partner....

Day 129: "Work/Life Balance" Means You Hate Your Job

22 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why sticking at a job you hate makes you a total piece of shit.SHOWNOTES:If you want coaching from me, I'll kick your ass into gear and force you...

Day 128: Not Drinking on a Date? (Patreon Question)

21 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy answers one of his Patreon's questions about how to have a date while on a diet (no alcohol, caffeine or food).SHOWNOTES:Join my Patreon to ...

Day 127: Screening Early vs Screening Later

20 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Should you be really upfront and show girls you want something sexual, or hold back a bit?Want help with screening earlier, or anything else you'...

Day 126: If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?

19 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

One of the biggest predictors of success is whether or not you take yourself - and your self-improvement - seriously.And if you're ready to take ...

Day 125: Getting Flaked on is Normal

18 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Don't get too hung up on flaking - it's a normal part of the dating game.SHOWNOTES:Bathmate pump:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmateThe ...

Day 124: Dates Aren't Just for Sex - They're for Being More Social

17 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why you don't have to be "Mr Social Butterfly" before you can go on dates and get laid.SHOWNOTES:Want coaching and for me to kick your ...

Day 123: Part 2 of the Latest Virgin Saga

16 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Following on from yesterday's episode, Andy and Imogen see the virgin girl a second time for more shenanigans.SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand Vibrator:https...

Day 122: Andy & Imogen Don't Pressure a Virgin

15 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Immy meet a very hot, but very shy virgin girl - and wax lyrical about why "pushing through LMR" is a shitty idea.SHOWNOTES:Magic W...

Day 121: Radical & Andy on Self-Awareness

14 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy shares how completely un-selfaware and emotional he was before his self-improvement journey.SHOWNOTES:Radical's fashion/self-improvement blo...

Day 120: Radical & Andy on Simping

13 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Is "simping" an effective strategy? Is there a better way? Radical joins Andy to shoot the shit once again.You need to get your life in orde...

Day 119: My Life Isn't Always Glamorous & Exciting

12 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why you should be sceptical of pretty much everything you see online.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching...

Day 118: It's a Numbers Game, Not a Stats Game

11 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why counting you "lay ratios" or "date ratios" is doing more harm than good.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking ab...

Day 117: 5 Mistakes Guys Make with Getting Laid

10 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Been making these mistakes yourself? Don't worry, Andy offers a cure too.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for...

Day 116: Stop Being Scared of Getting Banned on Tinder

09 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why some of you need to man the fuck up.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to c...

Day 115: Why I DON'T Recommend Open Relationships to Newbies

08 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy gives his thoughts on why open serious relationships aren't recommended if you're not already VERY experienced - and why open CASUAL re...

Day 114: My Audience's Most Helpful Purchases

07 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy covers some of the purchases that have helped his readers/listeners.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coac...

Day 113: 12 Facts About Andy You've Never Heard

06 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I don't drive, I don't eat eggs, I'm in love with Zelda & I think guys who like ass are gay. And that's just the tip of the ic...

Day 112: The Time a Crazy Japanese Mistress Tried to Use My Cum for Evil

05 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A wild story about a crazy bipolar nutcase.You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you t...

Day 111: How to Find Dominant Women

04 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Can you find dominant women out in the wild... or is there a better way?SHOWNOTES:Coaching with me:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coachingSex Toys I R...

Day 110: Pussy is Overrated, Let's Go Get Some Dick

03 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Why women have easy access to an ever-flowing on-tap dick supply, why men suck at understanding the female perspective, and why women are horrible at ...

Day 109: How to Make An Honest Woman

02 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Can women have as much raw honesty and integrity as men?Want me to kick your ass into gear and make damn sure you crush your goals? Hit me up for a co...

Day 108: There are 2 Levels of Attraction (Attraction vs Lust)

01 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

If you've never had a girl visibly lust over you and masturbate over you, you're doing self-improvement wrong.Join my Patreon for all sorts ...

Day 107: My Top 5 Most Helpful Purchases

30 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The purchases that have helped Andy the most.WH-1000XM4 Noise-Cancelling Headphones:http://kyil-extra.com/recommendations#headphonesMagic Wand Vibrato...

Day 106: Try Not Having Sex, and Focus on ONLY Foreplay

29 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy's got a killer challenge for you - you are NOT allowed to have sex.SHOWNOTES:Toys I Recommend:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/support/#recomm...

Day 105: Imogen's Getting Laid/Self-Improvement Journey [Part 2]

28 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen continue answering a Patreon's questions about getting laid - from Imogen's perspective.Want to ask me questions yourself? J...

Day 104: Imogen's Getting Laid/Self-Improvement Journey [Part 1]

27 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen answer a Patreon's questions about getting laid - from Imogen's perspective.Want to ask me questions yourself? Join my Patre...

Day 103: How Long Should You Have a Date for?

26 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Should you have a 1 hour date, or a 5 hour date? Should you bounce a girl between multiple venues? What about the 2nd and 3rd date?SHOWNOTESTake MASSI...

Day 102: Do You Need to Touch Girls on a Date?

25 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you need to "kino" and "escalate" on a girl in public, or can you wait until you're back at your place?SHOWNOTES:What to D...

Day 101: "I'm Worried About Erectile Dysfunction..."

24 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy answers a patron's questions about his insecurity around getting it up in the bedroom.Want to ask me your own questions and have me answer t...

Day 100: "I'm Worried About Being Thought of as a Slut" (Winner's Mindset vs Loser's Mindset) (Female Listener)

23 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy answers a female listener's questions about insecurity and nervousness around sex, how to be better in the bedroom, whether you should hold ...

Day 99: "Is it necessary to Develop an Attractive Lifestyle if I want to be Successful at Having Sex with Women?"

22 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Do you need to be a cool, social, outgoing, extroverted guy in order to get laid?Wanna ask me questions and have me answer them on podcasts? Come join...

Day 98: Can you Have Sex with Girls who Say "Looking for a relationship" in their Tinder Bio?

21 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A question for the ages.Want to support the show? https://theinnerwinnershow.com/support🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communi...

Day 97: How Do I Be More Outcome-Independent?

20 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This question comes up all the damn time. Don't stress; Andy's got you covered.SHOWNOTES:The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More ...

Day 96: A Typical Day in the Life of a Guy Who Gets Laid

19 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy talks about a typical day/week in his life, as well as what life was like for him just 3 years ago.Wanna ask me questions just like Ed did here? ...

Day 95: What Tricks/Shortcuts Have Helped Me Get Laid More?

18 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy discusses some of the "cheats" he's used to build a kickass sex life.Wanna ask me questions just like Ed did here? Come join my Pa...

Day 94: Does Andy Disagree with Good Looking Loser? (Yes).

17 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy discusses a couple of the issues he has with some of Good Looking Loser's advice.Wanna ask me questions just like Ed did here? Come join my ...

Day 93: 4th 3some in 3 Weeks

16 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen have some fun with a very small, very adorable Asian girl. Audio quality was a bit echoey towards the last half of this episode; next ...

Day 92: What Kind of Girls do I Like?

15 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy continues part 3 of the epic saga of answering all of Ed's questions.Want to ask me your own questions and have me answer them in a podcast?...

Day 91: My Biggest Challenges with Getting Laid

14 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Carrying on from yesterday's podcast, Andy talks about his biggest challenges with getting laid in the beginning.Sign up to my Patreon to ask me ...

Day 90: Did Andy Ever Feel Like Giving Up?

13 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy answers a bunch of questions about his biggest struggles and lowest points in his getting laid journey.Sign up for my Patreon to ask me questions...

Day 89: How to Have 3somes with your Girlfriend & Girls SHE Meets from Tinder

12 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen discuss how you can get your girlfriend (or friends-with-benefits) to set up her Tinder profile and find girls for you two to play wit...

Day 88: Unplanned, Unscripted and Full of Gratitude

11 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A completely unscripted episode about my self-improvement journey and how I got into coaching (and how I started my blog + this podcast).🤝 The Abun...

Day 87: Andy's Nightmarish Experience Trying Weed (Trip to the Hospital)

10 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

The horror story of my first time trying pot, and ending up in the fucking hospital.Patreon, for kickass extra goodies, early access to episodes and a...

Day 86: Tristan Nigro talks Getting Laid & Long-term Relationships

09 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Tristan Nigro's back for a second round, to discuss his getting laid journey, life with his girlfriend, and going all-in with your goals.Join my ...

Day 84: How to Be Happier as a Younger Man [PART 2/2]

07 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Part 2 of how to be happier in your 20's. (Part 1 was here).Patreon, for kickass extra goodies, early access to episodes and ask me questions and...

Day 83: How to Be Happier as a Younger Man [PART 1/2]

06 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy gives his thoughts on a recent article by A Happier Man, on how to be happier in your 20's. (Part 2 is here).Patreon, for kickass extra good...

Day 82: How Often Should I See Girls I'm Dating?

05 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy answers one of his Patron's questions about how many times a week you should see the girls you date.Watch this episode on Youtube: https://y...

Day 81: What's it Like Being a Woman?

04 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy asks Imogen the tough question: What the hell is it like being a female?Sign up for my Patreon and mention you joined specifically through this e...

Day 77: A 3some, A New Lease on Life & An Update

31 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen discuss their latest 3some and finally being free.Join my Patreon for kickass exclusives, including coaching calls with me:https://pat...

Day 75: RogerRoger on Hitting on 124 Girls in 10 Hours

29 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy interviews one of his coaching clients - RogerRoger - who recently hit on 124 girls in a single day!Want to do what RogerRoger did, but have no i...

Day 74: How to Get Started with BDSM [Part 2]

28 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen cover the basics of BDSM for the absolute newbie, including how to get started without spending any money. (Part 1 is here).SHOWNOTES:...

Day 73: How to Get Started with BDSM [Part 1]

27 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen cover the basics of BDSM for the absolute newbie, including how to get started without spending any money. (Part 2 is here).SHOWNOTES:...

Day 72: How to Develop a Sense of Humour

26 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy teaches you EXACTLY how to be a motherfucking funny cunt.SHOWNOTES:Podcast with Joe:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=99gaRkOnJ3kMy Patreon - kicka...

Day 71: The Only Thing that Matters: Just Don't Ever Fucking Quit

25 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a cheat-code to success? Why do some people achieve greatness, and others fail miserably?SHOWNOTES:Imposter Syndrome:https://killyourinnerlos...

Day 60: AI, Venture Capital & Walking with CEO Dennis Mortensen

14 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy's joined by x.ai CEO Dennis Mortensen to talk the future of AI, starting your own business and whether that entrepreneurial spirit will ever...

Day 57: How We Met!

11 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen tell the wild and wacky tale of their first encounter. It's a saucy one...Products that'll change your fucking life: https:/...

Day 49: The Pinnacle of Man on NoFap, Porn Addiction, Making Money & Dodging Haters

04 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy is joined by Josh from Pinnacle of Man to talk nofap and overcoming porn addiction, making money, crazy hater stories and why a girl sitting on y...

Day 48: How Can Women Get into Self-Improvement?

02 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A female listener asks a bunch of questions for Imogen to answer - how can women flirt with another woman, how to find a solid group of female friends...

Day 47: Look for SOLUTIONS, not Problems

01 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

There's almost nothing in life you "can't" do, as long as you hold this as your philosophy: "I'll stop focusing on my pr...

Day 43: Cold Approach/Daygame Should be FUN

27 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy's got two awesome tips for making your approaches far more fun.Want to contact me, or have your own questions you'd like me to cover on...

Day 40: Weekly Accountability Check-ins

24 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Struggling to keep yourself accountable with your goals? Do what Andy and Imogen do - use a weekly check-in to keep yourself on-task.The questions Imo...

Day 38: The Meaning Of Life & How to Be Happy

22 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Struggling to get over an ex, and want to know the meaning of life and how to be happy? Tune in!Want to contact me, or have your own questions you&apo...

Day 32: Talk About what You HAVE Done, Not What You WILL Do

16 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy waxes lyrical about his years of depression and how he overcame it by taking action - not by sitting around talking about what he "would&qu...

Day 30: Success Story: Radical

14 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy is joined by a coaching client and veteran of his forums, Radical, dishing out plenty of dating, relationship and travel advice to newbies and ex...

Day 29: Is Being Short a Dealbreaker for Girls?

13 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen answer a listener's questions and give him a bit of general feedback.This was also done as a YouTube video! View it here:https://...

Day 25: The Craziest Story of My Entire Life (Part 2)

09 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A story I've been hinting at for years - a girl who absolutely lost her mind and called the police + fire department + ambulance on me.Previous e...

Day 23: The Craziest Story of My Entire Life (Part 1)

07 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A story I've been hinting at for years - a girl who absolutely lost her mind and called the police + fire department + ambulance on me.Hit on her...

Day 11: You Are NOT Meant to Live My Lifestyle Forever, & Why Traditional Relationships are "Normal"

26 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 11 of 365: The best episode yet, covering topics of serious relationships, whether you can (or should) be a player forever, and whether girls shou...

Day 9: You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought

24 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 9 of 365: Andy dives into his own mental health and walks you through some exercises to battle negative thought patterns.Shownotes:You Can’t Aff...

Day 8: Fascist Dictatorships in Melbourne, Australia

23 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 8 of 365: A much more free-flowing episode with no script, discussing 365 projects and police states. Good fun.Shownotes:Melbourne Police State (D...

Day 7: 365 Day Challenge

22 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 7 of 365: Andy commits to 365 days in a row of podcasts. Join me!The Takeaway:If I can do this, you sure as hell can too. Some ideas:1 approach a ...

Day 6: Run TOWARDS Fear

21 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 6 of 365: Andy & his guest Imogen tackle fear the best way they know how; head-on.The Takeaway:Run towards fear - don't avoid it.The more...

Day 5: Open Relationships & Boundaries

20 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 5 of 365: Andy and Imogen talk about their open relationships, seeing other girls together, setting boundaries and being on the same team in a rel...

Day 3: How to Pleasure Women, Does Penis Size Matter & Orgasms [Part 1]

19 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 3 of 365: Andy and Imogen cover matters of size (Part 1).Magic Wand vibrator for crazy orgasms (affiliate link):https://doxymassager.com/collectio...

Day 4: How to Pleasure Women, Whether Penis Size Matters & Orgasms [Part 2]

19 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Day 4 of 365: Andy and Imogen cover matters of size (Part 2).Magic Wand vibrator for crazy orgasms (affiliate link):https://doxymassager.com/collectio...