Andy Wells

Day 280: Making (MALE) Friends on Bumble?

22 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A hack for making friends and building an awesome social circle.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7GgcctWxns0Want DAILY access to me, we...

Day 279: Go Get a Massage and Be a Self Indulgent Twat

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Here's one thing we guys absolutely SUCK at: Doing something truly self-indulgent once in a while. Let's change that.Watch this episode on Y...

Day 278: Feel Like You Missed Out on Your 20s?

20 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Here's a topic that's extremely close to my heart - guys in their late 20's or 30's feeling like it's "too late" fo...

Day 277: Short Guys Will NEVER Get Girls???

19 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A must-listen for those of you who are shorter, this is the most comprehensive answer I've ever given to the complaint, "I can't get la...

Day 276: STOP Suppressing Your Emotions! They're Trying to TELL You Something.

18 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I see too many of you thinking you're a giant pussy if you ever feel too angry, or get down, or have a week where you're sad, or get butthur...

Day 275: Want SERIOUS Weight Loss Motivation? WATCH THIS. (Joe's Weightloss)

17 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some EPIC weight loss motivation from the legendary Joe!Watch this on YouTube (this episode won't make sense unless you watch it on YouTube): htt...

Day 274: How to Hit on Girls at the Gym

16 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It's nowhere near as scary as some of you think it is, I promise.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aY7Bgxt4uWE Oh, what's tha...

Day 273: Having a BAD Day? 80% is Still Good Enough.

15 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Your life is never going to be 100% perfect, and you can't sit around waiting for "the right moment" to work on your goals. Here's...

Day 272: I'm All-in Now.

14 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I'm upgrading my life. Let's fucking go.Upgrade yours too - message me for coaching and I'll get you the life you want, no fucking arou...

Day 271: My Listeners Are INSANE!

13 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

An absolutely crazy story from one of my listeners, Ivan, who came on to talk about a *very* bad trip he had while taking way too many magic mushrooms...

Day 270: REAL Sex Isn't Always Smooth

12 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How to get out of your own head and stop STRESSING about whether or not you're doing a good job in the bedroom - as well as why porn is weird as ...

Day 269: I Don't Feel Great, Guys.

11 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I've been feeling a bit down the last few days - long story. But I sat down to do a podcast anyway, and what resulted was me pouring out a lot of...

Day 268: Women Are Not. Fucking. Mysterious.

10 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And perpetuating this myth leads to you only ending up with low-quality women.Watch this episode on YouTubes: https://youtu.be/st7NP5tLYaU How to Have...

Day 267: My Approach Anxiety is Toast!

09 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A killer interview with Devin - who goes by the name Toast on my forums - who recently completed the Approach Anxiety Program. We talk about how it ch...

Day 266: DON'T Punish Girls for Bad Behaviour

08 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And why it only leads to resentment - for you and for her.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/87Zn_xfMmdEThe Meaning of Life and How to Be Happy: https...

Day 265: STOP APOLOGISING for Your Desires as a Man!

07 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You have a cock and balls hanging between your legs. Stop trying to hide them.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3E3WwjbCBssThere is No Such Thing as ...

Day 264: The Girl Who Made Me Stop Hating Women

06 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Despite my best efforts, I couldn't keep hating women forever... especially not with a girl like this in my life.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu....

Day 263: My First Ever Cold Approach Lays

05 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Reminiscing about the first 3 girls I met through cold approach, and how each of them improved my life (and my confidence).Coaching with me: https://k...

Day 262: You've Gotta Love Yourself (Haley Helveston)

04 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The legendary Haley Helveston from Your Guide to Love joins me to talk about sex, self-improvement, why sacrifice doesn't automatically entitle y...

Day 261: You Can't Save Everybody.

03 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

As much as your ego hates to hear this, some people just aren't ready to be helped.Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHZwwijLoacC...

Day 260: Frustrated By No Results? (Tinder Burnout)

02 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Feeling frustrated and annoyed by your lack of results on Tinder? Don't stress, I've got the solution.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Rgs...

Day 259: Just Because I Give You Permission to Suck, Doesn't Mean You Have to Take Me Up on it

01 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Yes, it's ok to suck at the start. But you're also allowed to push yourself not to suck.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_MoBhJ9CbKkTake M...

Day 258: Dates While Sober???

30 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I'm gonna blow your mind here: Yes, it's ok to have dates without drinking, and yes, it's ok to go on dates during the daytime.Watch on...

Day 257: The EASIEST Approach Technique Ever

29 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

"Hey, you're cute. I'm Andy. I'm in a rush, but lemme get your number and we'll grab a drink".Easy.Watch this on YouTube...

Day 256: I Hit My Goal 9 MONTHS EARLY.. Now What?

28 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What to do when you achieve a goal much earlier than you thought you would.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Gos6OGwrNhkWant ongoing accountability a...

Day 255: 31yo LOSES VIRGINITY & Beats ED (Ed's Story) [Part 2/2]

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Part 2 of the legendary Ed interview. This time we tackle how he conquered his performance anxiety and finally lost his virginity, some tricks you can...

Day 254: 31yo LOSES VIRGINITY & Beats ED (Ed's Story) [Part 1/2]

26 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You're going to love this MUST LISTEN success story from one of my long-time clients, Ed, who went from being a 31 year depressed virgin to an as...

Day 253: ESCORT Georgie Wolf Tells All

25 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The much-anticipated proper interview with escort, sex educator and podcaster Georgie Wolf! We talk about what she loves about being an escort, her wi...

Day 252: "I Cheated on My Girlfriend - How Do I Tell Her?"

24 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A pretty deep discussion with a listener about cheating, coming clean, ethics and morality, philosophy and whether you can be ok with keeping a huge s...

Day 251: This Email Made My Day.

23 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

An inspiring interview I did with a guy named Andy from Finland about all the changes he's made in his life. It stemmed from a 6-page letter he s...

Day 250: Joe & Andy Don't Wanna Be Fuckboys

22 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A kickass chat with Joe from Passion Unchained about dealing with childhood trauma, not getting attached to girls too quickly, and not being so much o...

Day 249: Georgie Wolf & Andy on GETTING LAID

21 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A quick chat that was never meant to be a podcast, but was too good not to share.I'm doing a proper interview with Georgie in a week, so stay tu...

Day 248: "APPROACHING GIRLS Changed My Life!"

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Brandon from my forums joins me to talk about how the AA Program changed both our lives, the wildest (and funniest) memories we made along the way, an...

Day 247: Don't Accept Other People's Rules

19 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why you'll be infinitely happier - and more sovereign - when you do what YOU want to do, and not what others try to manipulate you into doing.Mes...

Day 246: Guys, We All Need to Stop Raping.

18 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Quote: "The aim of '10 Top Tips' was to reverse the popular trend of focusing rape prevention messages on women and instead transfer th...

Day 245: How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)

17 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

*** Resources Mentioned: https://killyourinnerloser.com/depression(All the resources mentioned are listed in that article)00:00 Intro00:25 Chapter 1 -...

Day 244: Find Girls at YOUR Experience Level

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Wanna find out how much sexual experience a girl has had? Here's how.Want to ask me questions and have me record an entire podcast episode just f...

Day 243: Stop Being NEEDY (Andy Reacts)

15 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Alternative title: Why Leaving Girls Better than You Found Them Benefits YOU.Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HV2wm...

Day 242: Some Women Will Give You a Blowjob, but Won't Kiss You (Andy Reacts)

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Alternative title: The Hotter She is, the More Mentally Fucked Up She'll Be?Watch this episode on the YouTubes: https://youtu.be/HV2wmIxC2EU It&a...

Day 241: Andy Has Nice Guy Syndrome?

13 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Well, actually I have "Decent Guy Syndrome", so let's talk about why that's better than being a Nice Guy™.No More Mr Nice Guy: h...

Day 240: What Do YOU Have to Offer?

12 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A fun exercise to figure out what you're bringing to the table, and what will keep girls coming back for more.Watch this episode on the YouTubes:...

Day 239: How to be Vulnerable But MASCULINE

11 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Yep, you can be honest and open, whilst still retaining your masculinity and having women (and men) respect you. Here's how.Watch this episode on...

Day 238: 5 Reasons You Can't Improve

10 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The 5 biggest mistakes guys make with getting girls & self-improvement in general.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Zr0Vzjfl3CYHow I Beat My Appr...

Day 237: Interview with a UNICORN (3somes) [Part 3/3]

09 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The finale of our 3-part epic saga with a unicorn. Who will emerge victorious? Who will reign supreme? Find out on the next episode of UNICORN HUNTER....

Day 236: Interview with a UNICORN (3somes) [Part 2/3]

08 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Round 2 of our interview with one of the girls we're seeing. We cover the big questions - does erectile dysfunction matter, and do girls care if ...

Day 235: Interview with a UNICORN (3somes) [Part 1/3]

07 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen interview a girl they're sleeping with about 3somes, BDSM, what it's like dating a couple and who's better in bed - men...

Day 234: DO NOT Be Her Reason to Live (Andy Reacts)

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And why training makes you "good"...Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SHdo4tMsxasPrevious reacts video: https://www.youtube.co...

Day 233: Lockdowns are Over... Time to GET LAID.

05 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You've been a pussy during lockdowns, and you've made excuses. Let's fix that, starting right now.Watch this on Youtube: https://youtu....

Day 232: DON'T Make Girls Happy (Andy Reacts)

04 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And why you don't need to be Mr Social Butterfly in order to get laid.Watch this on Youtube: https://youtu.be/-PGe5jP968oPrevious episode coverin...

Day 231: Andy & Immy REACT to their 1st Podcast

03 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Yeah, our first few episodes were pretty cringe.Watch this on Youtube: https://youtu.be/uIjVZY-JhzsOur previous reacts video: https://www.youtube.com/...

Day 230: What are OUR 3somes Like?

02 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And why you should keep an open mind and experiment with new things.Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our ...

Day 229: How to Sleep with Any Girl Who Has a Boyfriend

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Happy April, guys.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIREC...

Day 228: How to Get Laid as a Woman

31 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

With one simple trick!Rulebook podcast: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/197/Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser🤝 The Abundance Collectiv...

Day 227: Does Your AMOUNT of Cum Matter? (Ejaculation)

30 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Short answer: probably not. Here's why.Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching comm...

Day 226: Andy Reacts - You Will NOT Be Confident

29 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why "Just Be Confident!" is the most braindead dating advice anyone could ever give you.Give Yourself Permission to Suck: https://killyourin...

Day 225: Why I Advocate Honesty (Why the Truth Matters)

28 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Spoiler: It's not because "it's the right thing to do"...Honesty is an Ideal You Work Towards (how to be honest): https://killyour...

Day 224: How to Pick a Girl Up DURING Sex

27 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The most fun you can have with her vertical smile whilst being vertical yourself.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5cTlmINLbqsBDSM Start...

Day 223: Mutual Orgasms - How to Orgasm at the Same Time as Your Girl

26 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And why it's the hottest thing since yo momma's crack.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KELdWeAbd6gMagic Wand Vibrator:  http...

Day 222: Pain and Pleasure

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why spanking and other forms of pain are a hell of a lot of fun - for her, and for you.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/NLKOzkTOGKgBDSM...

Day 221: But What If You Could See Her Naked?

24 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

One of my favourite tricks to overcome approach anxiety/general nervousness with women.SHOWNOTES:Watch this on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube...

Day 220: I Have to be Real with You Guys...

23 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Where my head's been at the last few months, and how 2 emails affected me deeply.SHOWNOTES:My Patreon: https://killyourinnerloser.com/patreon🤝...

Day 219: My Client's First 3some! (Success Story)

22 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

One of the guys in my mentorship group - The Winners Club - recently had his first ever 3some. What a legend.SHOWNOTES:Sign up for the Winners club fo...

Day 218: I Don't Want to Be Here (But I Showed Up Anyway)

21 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You won't always feel like taking action, but you should in spite of how you feel.Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/nfopwCGfcj0Want ongoing acco...

Day 217: Petplay (What the Hell is that?)

20 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What is petplay, why is it hot as hell, and why should you try it? (Bonus 3some story!)SHOWNOTES:Collar and Leash kit we recommend: https://www.pjtra....

Day 216: I Disagree with BlackDragon About Lying to Women

19 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why being upfront and honest about what you're looking for makes things a billion times easier, and why lying is a dick move.Watch this episode o...

Day 215: How to Have Anal Sex

18 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The definitive guide on exploring her dirt track.Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/AHn5u9shZe0🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our afforda...

Day 214: Why We Don't Use a Safeword (BDSM)

17 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And what we do instead to make girls feel comfortable when exploring kinky, rough sex.SHOWNOTES:How to Have Rough Sex: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/...

Day 213: Top Sex Techniques & Why Our Past Selves Were Arrogant Dicks

16 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Alternative title: Why Cuddling is Not a Sex Technique.SHOWNOTES:Join The Winners Club: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Magic Wand:  ...

Day 212: Being in Love in an Open Relationship [Part 2 of 2]

15 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How many times I've been in love, how it was different each time, whether I've been in love with more than one girl at the same time & h...

Day 211: Being in Love in an Open Relationship [Part 1 of 2]

14 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How many times I've been in love, how it was different each time, whether I've been in love with more than one girl at the same time & h...

Day 210: Distil People Down into 1 Sentence

13 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

...in order to assess whether they're adding to your life, or taking away from it.Watch this episode on my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.c...

Day 209: Fantasise About Your Goals (to Make You Believe They're Possible)

12 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How to trick your brain into BELIEVING your goals are achievable.Watch this as a video on my youtube channel: https://youtu.be/KdsUICC0YXESHOWNOTES:Me...

Day 208: Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM

11 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why asking girls for dating advice is a lose-lose for both of you. SHOWNOTES:No more Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-n...

Day 207: 5 Struggles My Coaching Clients Have

10 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

5 of the biggest struggles my clients - and guys on my forums - have with dating/getting laid.Watch this on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/U...

Day 206: What the School System Could Be

09 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen talk about the complete and utter failures of the modern education system, and how it could be ten billion times less dogshit.🤝 The...

Day 205: What Questions Would I Ask Chris from GoodLookingLoser?

08 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

If I could go back in time, what questions would I have asked my mentor Chris when I was at my newbie stage?Watch this episode on YouTube: https://you...

Day 204: How to Avoid Sexual Incompatibility

07 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How do you screen for sexual compatibility, and what do you do if the chemistry just isn't there?🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable co...

Day 203: How to Meditate & Relax (The 5-Minute Meditator Review)

06 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some techniques on relaxation and meditation from the awesome book, The 5-Minute Meditator.SHOWNOTES:Buy The 5-Minute Meditator Here: https://kyil-ex...

Day 202: How to Kiss a Shy or Virgin Girl

05 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen discuss how to kiss girls who are super shy or turn you down for a kiss.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communi...

Day 201: Sigma and Andy Talk Money

04 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A kickass chat with Sigma about making money and becoming a digital nomad, whether to prioritise your sex life or making money, how you can help other...

Day 200: How to See Multiple Girls at the Same Time

03 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Whether to be honest about seeing multiple girls, how to handle the logistics, how often you should see them, and more.SHOWNOTES:Honesty is an Ideal Y...

Day 199: Are You Trying to Have Sex, or Trying to get Validation?

02 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Validation should never be your ONLY focus, and here's why.SHOWNOTES:Getting Laid for Ego Validation is Perfectly Ok: https://killyourinnerloser....

Day 198: Everything in Life is a Numbers Game

01 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The numbers game applies to making friends, getting a job, making content, overcoming mental hurdles, and so much more.SHOWNOTES:Read the full article...

Day 197: Other People Have a Different Rulebook to You (Empathy)

28 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why people aren't always going to do what you want them to do... and how to deal with the frustration that comes from that.SHOWNOTES:Pickup Artis...

Day 196: Sexual Homework Tasks to Give Girls

27 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Some fun, kinky ideas to give to girls you're seeing.SHOWNOTES:BDSM Test: https://bdsmtest.org/select-modeThe Winner's Club (my private acco...

Day 195: Analysis Paralysis

26 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why sitting around reading/planning is not going to get you the life you want to live.SHOWNOTES:Take MASSIVE Action: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/67...

Day 194: Ramblings from 2 Psychos in a Park

25 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Andy and Imogen talk about Andy's future goals, money, the direction of his website, why politics are gay and how to have that "Fuck it, I&a...

Day 193: David (GravyTrain) on Tattoos, Money and PMW

24 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The legendary David (GravyTrain) is back for a second interview! Good times.Watch this as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q_p7-H0jgZkSHOWNOTES:Da...

Day 192: You Should Create Something

23 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why you don't need to be an "expert" in order to start a blog/YouTube channel/podcast/artwork/etc.🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our af...

Day 191: Imogen Hates Girls, Radical is a Thief & Andy Has Clickbait Titles Now?

22 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And even his fucking description is vague and non-descript? He's jumped the fucking shark.SHOWNOTES:Watch this on my YouTube channel: https://www...

Day 190: Radical Ideas: Do 1 Goal at a Time

21 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Why doing multiple big goals at once is a recipe for disaster.SHOWNOTES:YouTube version of this episode: https://youtu.be/SHaHO6mRm_oRadical's vi...

Day 189: Does Andy Disagree with BlackDragon Blog? [Part 2]

20 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The answer is yes, and also no. How deliberately vague...  ;) (Part 2)SHOWNOTES:Previous Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7511719Black Dra...

Day 188: Does Andy Disagree with BlackDragon Blog? [Part 1]

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The answer is yes, and also no. How deliberately vague...  ;)SHOWNOTES:Black Dragon Blog: https://calebjones.com/blogThis is All Just a Big Experimen...

Day 187: How to Be Vulnerable Whilst Still Being Masculine (plus We Went on the AskWomen Podcast!)

18 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Imogen and I talk about a recent podcast interview we did, what it was like being guests instead of hosts (it's weird), and how you can be open a...

Day 186: "I'm a Bisexual Guy and I'm Ashamed of it"

17 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Should you be ashamed of your own kinks/desires, especially if people give you shit for it?🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching comm...

Day 185: How to Lick Pussy

16 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How to pleasure her muff, how to make sure she's clean, how to transition from making out to sex, and why it's ok to suck at the start.SHOWN...

Day 184: How to Have Rough Sex

15 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How to ramp things up and give her a wild ride she'll brag about to her friends.SHOWNOTES:How to Write a Sexual Bucketlist: https://killyourinner...

Day 183: Can You Make a Girl Cum with Only Your Penis?

14 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Is your meat-rod enough to quench her quivering quim & make her quake?SHOWNOTES:How to Last Longer in Bed: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7363...

Day 182: When a Girl Says No...

13 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When blue balls are on the menu, what's a man to do?SHOWNOTES:Make Girls Say Yes to Sex: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7341700It's &quo...

Day 181: How to Last Longer in Bed

12 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

My non-mainstream advice on lasting longer in bed - this isn't the usual bullshit advice you hear from the normies.SHOWNOTES:Magic Wand Vibrator:...