In this episode, guest Andrew Guck shares his remarkable journey from upstate New York to building a life in southern France, where he’s lived for over a decade. What began with a casual interest in French class—and a long-lost crush—eventually led to a love story, a spontaneous elopement, and a bold move abroad. Andrew opens up about the cultural differences he encountered, especially the French approach to communication, debate, and saying “non.” He reflects on how these challenges reshaped his worldview and taught him to slow down, set boundaries, and trust his intuition. We talk about the foods he still misses from America, what it really takes to start over in a new country, and how he went from odd jobs to a successful career in real estate. Along the way, Andrew offers candid, heartfelt advice for anyone dreaming of making a big leap—emphasizing the power of passion, flexibility, and following the signs (even when they don’t make sense at first). Whether you're curious about expat life, craving a career pivot, or just love a good origin story—this conversation will inspire you to trust your gut and chase the life that’s calling. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction and Background 11:32 Journey to France and Love Story 18:06 Life in France: Reality vs. Expectations 28:48 Cultural Differences and Adaptation 33:35 Navigating No: Understanding Rejection and Opportunity 34:52 Cultural Differences: The Pace of Life in France vs. America 36:05 Missing Home: Food and Traditions from America 38:35 Career Challenges: Finding Work as a Foreigner in France 44:22 The Evolution of Remote Work: A Personal Journey 46:03 Embracing Change: From Yoga to Real Estate 57:51 Advice for Expats: Following Your Heart in New Adventures CONNECT WITH ANDREW YouTube Facebook ****** This episode is brought to you by International Living—trusted since 1979 to help people like you live better, spend less, and move smartly overseas. Their guidance has helped thousands find their perfect corner of the world—from coastal Portugal to mountain villages in Mexico. Right now, they’re offering listeners a special freebie: when you sign up for their daily postcard e-letter, you’ll get a sneak peek in their brand-new book European Living: The Complete Manual for Americans Over 55— check out your free chapter: The Loophole That Allows You to Live in Europe 360 Days a Year Without a Visa Sign up here to grab your free chapter: https://intliving.com/eulive Big thanks to International Living for supporting the show—and for inspiring so many of us to think beyond borders! ****** Armchair Expat is hosted by Shannon Acton, founder and Chief Bargain Hunter of Bargain Homes Abroad Follow on Instagram @bargainhomesabroad Visit our Website: https://www.bargainhomesabroad.co Subscribe to our E-Mail Digest: https://www.bargainhomesabroad.co/subscribe Join for VIP Access: https://www.bargainhomesabroad.co/membership If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, and leave a review. It helps us reach more future expats and keep these stories coming. ENTER THE REVIEW CONTEST: https://www.bargainhomesabroad.co/reviews If you're interested in sponsoring or partnering with Armchair Expat, please reach out to Shannon at the following email: info AT bargain-homes DOT com

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