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Break Free from Trauma Bonding | Take Back Your Power Trauma bonding can keep us stuck in relationships that drain our self-worth, confidence, and happiness. The cycle of hope, hurt, and confusion makes it incredibly difficult to walk away—even when we know it’s not healthy. If you recognise yourself in this, you are not alone. Trauma bonds are powerful, but you CAN break free and reclaim your inner power. In this episode of Ask Dr. Jodi, I unpack what trauma bonding really is, why it happens, and how it can quietly undermine your mental health and relationships. We’ll explore the root causes, the emotional risks, and—most importantly—practical steps you can take to start healing and rebuilding your sense of self.Many people struggle to understand why they stay in relationships that feel both necessary and draining. Trauma bonding can make leaving or changing these dynamics feel impossible. Key TakeawaysWhat trauma bonding means and why it happens in the brain and bodyHow trauma affects memory, emotions, and the stories we tell ourselvesWhy feeling “different” or “broken” after trauma is a normal human response, not a personal failingThe dangers of isolation and why connection (even small talk!) is crucial for healingHow trauma bonds can become unhealthy, especially when power tactics or manipulation are involvedThe difference between healthy interdependence and overdependencePractical steps to build a support network and plan for safety if you need to leave a harmful relationshipWhy not all trauma bonding is negative, connection with people who truly understand you can be healingThe importance of diversity in your support system and taking time to build trustThis episode is full of compassionate, practical advice for recognising trauma bonds, protecting yourself, and moving towards relationships that lift you up.Resources mentioned in this episode:Watch the video of this episode at the blog: https://jodiaman.com/blog/trauma-bonding/Dr. Jodi Aman’s YouTube Channel: @DoctorJodiDrama triangle Video: https://youtu.be/atekZLTQ0mYGeneration Z Mental Health Resource Guide: jodiaman.com/guideRedirect Positive Mindset Cards jodiaman.com/order-redirect-flash-cardsEnCompass SEL Class Activity jodiaman.com/order-encompass-gameAnxiety, I'm So Done with You! BookThank you so much for listening to Ask Dr. Jodi! If you enjoyed today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and share it with someone who needs inspiration or help to heal!
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