On this explosive episode of Barely Famous, Kail talks with returning guest Rico Hundo for a brutally honest conversation about cheating, loyalty, fatherhood, and navigating relationships under pressure. Rico opens up about his early infidelity, the fallout in his relationship, and what it really took to earn back trust. They debate personal responsibility, double standards, and whether monogamy is realistic in today’s world. Plus, Kail presses him on how misogyny and ego influence his choices—and whether he’d want his daughter to date someone like him. From parenting philosophies to emotional affairs, no topic is off-limits in this raw and thought-provoking interview.For full video episodes head to patreon.com/kaillowry Thanks for supporting the show by checking out the sponsors!Nutrafol: Start your hair growth journey with Nutrafol nutrafol.com promo code FAMOUSGIFTSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Chapter 1: What led to Rico Hundo's infidelity?
And then that person, I said, you know what? You know, that's not the only situation that has happened. You know, and if we're going to push forward, if you're going to actually work and trying to forgive me, there's going to be no skeletons in my closet. And so I don't delete anything in my phone. Both of my phones. Here are my phones.
You let her go through your phones.
She had them for like. days. Cause there was a lot in there. You know, the whole come and clean process happened years after the fact, maybe a year or two.
You had cheated on her multiple times and you didn't come clean about it for years. Can you, can you walk me through from a man's perspective, the decision-making behind one cheating on her and two not telling her for years? Well, can you love someone and still cheat on them?
Of course. Of course. Right. Well, the first thing I would say, and I don't want to say in my defense, but part of the situation that happened, we had broken up for like two weeks at a time. And although technically that's not cheating, those two week periods is when I would go out and do whatever I did. But we still live together, even though we were broken up. Right.
So it's still like cheating, but it's not. Right.
For sure.
Technically, it's not.
That's what my ex used to do to me. So I recognize that. But I was the one that never broke up. She would break up with me. Because you were doing dog shit.
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Chapter 2: How did Rico's relationship change after having a child?
I remember you telling me that.
We're still like this.
That's your brother.
That's my brother. You know what I'm saying? So I did still have that... that male figure in my life. And the greatest thing about him is that he's, like, a real OG.
Do you call him dad?
Nah, nah, nah.
Have you ever called him dad?
No, no, no.
You've always called him by his name?
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Chapter 3: What are the challenges of loyalty in modern relationships?
Maybe five, depending on what the situation is. Two, for me, I don't know. I feel like that you should still be in that very new phase of the relationship that you're still building. So for me, cheating within the first two years, I think is crazy.
So look, check this out. Back in the day, they said that the women were having sex with the mailman and the milkman, right? This is like what they say. I wasn't there.
Yeah, that's where like the, is that the milkman's daughter came from?
Exactly.
Right, right, right.
Also back in the day, at the same time, The husband had a whole other family that he was taking care of on the other side of town that nobody knew that he had kids over there. So women and men been cheating on each other.
I think the way that women tolerated and put up with cheating before, and it was easier to turn a blind eye to cheating before, was because we solely relied on men to be the providers and to be the producers of the home. And so we had to turn a blind eye. We didn't have a choice. Where today... I've made more money than all my exes combined. So I don't need you for any reason.
And if you can't help me around the house, I'm going to hire someone who can. So to me, why should I tolerate that when there is that 3% or 30% that would be faithful? Yeah, the pool is smaller and the time that I get to it might be long, but I'm willing to wait.
They're typically already taken.
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Chapter 5: Is cheating a choice or a consequence of circumstances?
She stayed.
Is that not strength?
No, it's spineless.
That's actually the most. And that's my thing, right? So right now we're actually in the age and a time where so many people can't actually deal with adversity. And not just in cheating. I'm just saying in life.
They can or they can't?
Can't. It's actually being proven.
And the problem is... But what does that have to do with cheating? You think cheating should be a part of adversities? Because I just don't agree.
I think that cheating can be. I don't think a serial cheater... I think that's entirely different.
Is that what you were?
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