Why We Project Old Pain Onto New People Without Realizing It | Becoming by Nqobile M Ep 20

When past pain goes unhealed, it shows up in the way we relate.This episode breaks down the psychology of projection and how unforgiveness distorts trust.- The fine line between coping and projectingHow past experiences affect trust and emotional safety- Mindfulness tools to break free from resentmentMindfulness Journal: https://nqobilem.com/products/becoming-mindfulness-journalFollow Nqobile MapsInstagram : www.instagram.com/nqobileh.mTimestamped Overview00:00 – Coping mechanisms: protective or toxic?01:30 – The psychology of projection explained03:00 – Real-life examples of projected trauma05:30 – How past hurts distort new relationships07:00 – Hypervigilance, mistrust, and emotional withdrawal09:30 – All relationships are affected—not just romantic11:00 – Why unforgiveness kills emotional vulnerability13:00 – Forgiveness vs. carrying emotional baggage15:00 – Simple daily reflection questions for healing18:00 – Journaling, mindfulness, and self-conversation tools#BecomingByNqobileh #Mentalhealth #unforgiveness

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