Send us a textEmily and Ashley get into the "why didn't anyone help her" event in Idaho and the bystander effect. We encourage you to listen to this episode and share it with a friend. We are better together, especially as women.Please head to the chat and ask your questions and drop comments for a follow up episodeTW: Violence, Domestic Violence https://www.patreon.com/chats/184564adfbce4c188055f0d32897533aShow notes: 0:00-1:00 Intro 1:00 Ashley’s favorite current tiktok - women empowering women 2:00 Societal pressure for women finding a partner4:00 Kids and phones 4:00-6:00 WTF with Marc Maron and phones 8:30-20:00 Let's Chat Coeur d’Alene Idaho 20:00 Diffusion of responsibility 23:00 Kitty Genovese murder 26:00 Return to Idaho town hall - Do you raise your hand when no one else does? 28:00 You can change the social norm of a situation 29:00 Seizure disorder and script 31:00 Fear for our own safety32:00 Fear of being wrong 33:00 How do we get the message to the people who actually matter?34:00 Ashley fell into exactly what is wrong with the patriarchy 35:00 Netflix Belle Gibson doc 37:00 -40:00 Raising kids in communityhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effectTik tok video: UN Unty Tan https://www.history.com/topics/crime/kitty-genovesehttps://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/The-Bystander-Effect-in-Non-Emergency-Situations%3A-Cox-Adam/2d8a412dab1aa0622b7345928687fd13a68b90a7https://academy4sc.org/video/the-smoky-room-experiment-trust-your-instincts/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diffusion_of_responsibilityhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Kitty_Genovesehttps://www.simplypsychology.org/kitty-genovese.htmlhttps://www.nytimes.com/2025/02/25/us/idaho-woman-removed-town-hall.htmlSupport the showSubscribe on our patreon for weekly content and behind the scenes content with us at https://www.patreon.com/thecreepybookclubFollow us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/thecreepybookclubFollow us on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@thecreepybookclubMusic is Ur Karma (ISupport the showSubscribe on our patreon for weekly content, early access to episodes, one true crime episode per month and behind the scenes content at https://www.patreon.com/thecreepybookclubFollow us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/thecreepybookclub and https://www.instagram.com/bookswithyourbesties/Follow us on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@thecreepybookclubMusic is Ur Karma (Instrumental Version) by Craig Reever.The opinions expressed in this podcast are those of Emily and Ashley of The Creepy Book Club alone.

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