Some breakups come after a long period of unhappiness in the relationship. Other times, they seem to come out of nowhere. The latter is becoming more common with “blindside divorces” on the rise. That’s what VICE writer Ashley Fike and I are chatting about today. Ashley and I talk about the many dynamics of a breakup that seems sudden, from all angles including the perspective of the one ending things. AND we give powerful, practical guidance for anyone struggling with a sudden breakup. We discuss: 🖤Both of our stories with being involved in a blindside divorce. 🖤”Perceived suddenness.”🖤Why blindside divorces are becoming more common. 🖤The grief the person ending things feels. 🖤5 tips for healing from a blindside divorce or breakup. Ashley is doing a lot of cool writing these days! Connect with her on LinkedIn. 🍷🍷Want to buy me a glass of wine? Head to my Patreon here. 🍷❓Want to learn about my breakup or secure attachment coaching? Head over to my website: ⁠JaniceFormichella.com⁠ and my IG: ⁠@janiceformichella⁠⁠Download The Broken Heart Repair Kit: The 3-step Method to Beating Your Breakup ⁠💙💜 _______________________________________________________________Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On with Janice Formichella is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.You don’t have to navigate your breakup alone. Download my free guide, Breakup Brain here.

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