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Brooke and Jeffrey

Second Date Update: Red Flag Test

03 Nov 2025

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Chapter 1: What is the purpose of the Second Date Update segment?

0.031 - 21.056 Dr. Laurie Santos

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21.596 - 43.265 Dr. Laurie Santos

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43.685 - 46.609 Dr. Laurie Santos

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46.893 - 48.6 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Hi, I'm Dr. Priyanka Wally.

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48.721 - 49.725 Hari Kundabolu

And I'm Hari Kundabolu.

49.906 - 54.043 Dr. Laurie Santos

On our new podcast, Health Stuff, we demystify your burning health questions.

54.305 - 57.257 Hari Kundabolu

You'll hear us being completely honest about our own health.

57.322 - 62.687 Dr. Priyanka Wally

My residency colon was like a cry for help, honestly.

62.707 - 71.997 Dr. Laurie Santos

And you'll hear candid advice and personal stories from experts who want to make healthcare more human. I feel like I never felt like I truly belonged in medicine.

Chapter 2: Who is today's guest and what is his dating dilemma?

474.312 - 475.053 Dr. Laurie Santos

Oh my gosh, yeah, that's a mistake.

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475.073 - 496.212 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Got so much hair in my mouth. Yeah, it's like you're kissing your kid before you send them off to school. Yeah, that's not the vibe. That is an awkward ending. Totally, that's awkward. For sure. And I totally could have buzzed you for not doing valet parking yourself, but I didn't do that. I'm giving you credit there. Give yourself a green flag, Jeff. What taco spot has valet parking?

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496.232 - 512.597 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Yeah, good job, Jeff, for being understanding of other people's cliques. What is going on? I feel really good about myself. I like the flag thing. Anyway, so after the head kiss, how did you two leave it? I mean, that was it. Like, I just walked back to my car. She drove off. And I haven't heard from her since.

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512.938 - 535.186 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Were you just walking back to your car being like, God, why did I kiss the top of my head? That's the worst. And you know you. Especially when you could have used tongue and you didn't. At least it shows that you're into it. I'm just going to fix your part here with my tongue. There it is. It shows that you wanted it, but you missed. Red flag yourself. Green flag. Green flag for effort.

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535.606 - 556.255 Dr. Priyanka Wally

And how long has it been since the awkward top of the head kiss? It's been a solid two weeks. Two weeks. That's a red flag. That's finally one we agree on. Any communication at all? Uh, no, she hasn't texted me back. That's why I am calling you guys. Hopefully you can help me. Like, did I somehow turn her off or offend her or something? I don't know.

556.535 - 576.485 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Well, the head's awkward, but that's not a deal breaker. For sure. Can we not use the sounders when we call her? Well, at that point, she's just going to be telling us what her red flags were. So it's not going to feel good to buzz it. But if she answers the phone on the first try, red flag. She should be, yeah, it's a little bit too overeager. It could be a scammer calling her.

576.505 - 589.286 Dr. Priyanka Wally

And I don't trust that. So hopefully she doesn't pick up for a few times. But when she does, second date update, red flag edition. We'll do it right after this. Hold on.

589.306 - 590.929 Hari Kundabolu

Second date update.

592.36 - 609.466 Dr. Priyanka Wally

If you're just joining us for the second day to update, we played a little game of spot the possible red flags. Why would we not call it red flag, green flag? And by we, it was you hitting the button whenever you wanted. It was a fun time, wasn't it? And several potential flags did come up.

Chapter 3: What did James and Chelsea bond over during their date?

769.96 - 772.403 Unknown

Why would I go into this on the radio? This is so weird.

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772.423 - 781.076 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Because he's like disappointed. I thought it was like such a cool compliment. He told us that he felt like he could fully, totally be his authentic self around you.

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783.84 - 785.944 Unknown

Yeah, okay. Sure.

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786.364 - 787.626 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Did you feel like that was the case?

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788.387 - 794.256 Unknown

Yeah, maybe he was his authentic self. If that authentic self is like pretty rude.

794.911 - 796.213 Dr. Priyanka Wally

What?

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Rude?

797.294 - 818.083 Dr. Priyanka Wally

That's so interesting. He didn't come across as rude to us at all. I felt like he was just too timid. Yeah. Since we did hear a few things that happened on the date, can we ask, was it when he asked to move tables to be far away from the singer that was annoying him? That's not why he moved tables, Jen. I don't know. I'm leaving it open for her to fill in the blank.

818.536 - 829.153 Dr. Priyanka Wally

Not leading the witness at all. No, no. Chelsea, was it that? No, that was fine. That didn't bother me. Yeah, because that was sweet. He said he wanted to be able to hear you better so you guys could have some good conversation.

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