In this episode, Dr. Diane Reidy-Lagunes speaks with two MSK clinical social workers, Hadley Maya and Natalie Santos, about how parents who've been diagnosed with cancer can talk to their children. They offer compassionate guidance on being honest with kids to prepare them for changes in family routines or treatment side effects, helping them feel more secure during a difficult time. With practical tips and real-life examples, this conversation offers advice for parents navigating one of the hardest discussions imaginable, while making sure their children feel supported and can continue being kids. Learn more about MSK’s Talking with Children about Cancer program Additional resources mentioned in this episode:Red Door CommunityCancerCareBright Spot Network Episode Chapters:1:14 - Should I tell my child I have cancer?3:01 - Should it be one conversation or more?4:16 - Advice from a mother with cancer5:27 - Should I put on a brave face? What if I cry?8:30 - How do I explain side effects like hair loss?10:36 - Advice from a mother who lost her hair11:43 - How do I tell my child I may die from cancer?14:24 - Advice from a mother with months to live16:02 - Age-appropriate guidelines for talking to kids21:30 - Advice from a father on age-appropriate talks22:39 - Advice from a daughter on having a sick mother24:32 - What if my teenager doesn't respond well?25:32 - Advice for the surviving parent26:17 - Resources to help parents with cancer28:09 - A note on trusting your childSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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