Chapter 1: What does the hosts' new studio setup signify for Season 3?
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I think romance is dead. Like, with the new generation. Just the new generation. That's the only thing. I think you got to be with an old school nigga to know.
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Chapter 2: What is the 'Princess Treatment' in modern relationships?
How you doing? Hey, we got, look, we got a new little setup here. I got the hookah rolling. Yeah, we popping. We popping. What's going on? What do we got today? What are we talking about? Hey, hold on though. Man, did you see... Man, there's a lot of shit going on out here in the streets. Before we even get into it, like the whole Cardi B with Stephon Diggs.
That's the first thing that I'm talking about.
Word. I didn't even... And then you got the whole Ja Rule on the plane. Ja Rule, my dude, and everything. You know, I hate to see, you know, when the rap beefs is doing that because I feel like for the culture that, you know, we should all be vibing together and doing something. I know the history with them and Yayo that go...
you know way back and everything you know you don't really like to see us out in public doing that type of you know i hope that can get a resolve soon that that'll be you know that'll be dope for the culture if it was a sit down with them maybe we can get them on truth of the dark yeah yo 50s i don't know i don't know but you know you hate to see that that type of stuff with us in public and everything but hopefully you know it can come to something you know i just love us i love you know
Everybody in the culture that's doing their thing. But, like, yeah, did you see that thing with Cardi B and Steph?
So, yeah, so Cardi B and Stephon Diggs supposedly, I mean, they broke up. So it's not a secret that obviously Stephon Diggs has other children on the way while Cardi B, you know, and him are together.
They had a kid together, huh?
Yeah, they also had a kid together, but he had other kids, and not everyone. That's a lot. So basically, at the game, he had the new baby and the baby mom all in his jersey in the front seat. in the front thing. And Cardi B's not feeling that because that's blowing me. That's going to blow me because the baby's not old enough to see what's going on. It's a newborn.
So it's not like the baby's there to support you. You got your, no, I'm never going for that. And Cardi B is done. And 50 Cent posted, imagine losing the Super Bowl and losing this bitch. He was like, this is crazy. You lost a bad one. He said, I would be waking up, drinking, and sick to my stomach. You lost your girl and you lost the Super Bowl. You are silly.
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Chapter 3: How do men and women perceive toxicity in relationships?
Like, you think you can do it at the beginning when you first met a man. You're like, this is cool. We're vibing. And women, we have this fault about always thinking... or seeing, like, the best in somebody. Like, okay, he might not do that to me. Like, he might really love me. And we don't know what he was saying to her, you know what I mean, at the end of the day.
So, I mean, yeah, it's a tough situation. But, yeah, he already had all them different baby mamas and all them kids.
It's some work for him. Let's keep it 100. Like, all right, I got you over here. I got her over there. Like, you know what it is. I got a girl pregnant while I'm with you, and we got pregnant. Like, I got both of y'all pregnant. Like, you understood the situation. So why you getting mad? Because she wanted to come to the game and support me. Like that's what he's saying. That's what he's saying.
Why are you coming to the game to support? That's crazy. That's not your man.
It don't have to be, but he has a child with her and he's saying like, Hey, my child want to come to the game.
The child, that's the newborn. Yeah, the child want to come to the game. No, that's bullshit. That's some bullshit. And if that's me, I'm cool too. Nah, I'm good. Like, I'm good, love and joy, because that's Messi, and she's in the jersey, he's in the jersey. It was Messi from the beginning, though. Yeah. Everybody is documented. That's why I think women don't put yourself in that situation.
Because we're too emotional. I think we think we can handle things that we can't handle. And then that's what a man will tell you. Instead of being caring about your feelings, a man will sit in your face and be like, well, you decided to do this. So don't, don't, don't. Don't do it, women. get your own shit crack and get with someone who wants to be with you, love you.
Just because you a celebrity, that don't mean you ain't no work. Because there's a lot of celebrities that's work. And it look like she was some work. 100%. That's what it look like on the outside.
Well, how are you work if you're booed up, in love, posting together, he's posting her.
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Chapter 4: What are the expectations around romance in today's dating culture?
Yeah, he do have a lot of different situations.
Like, come on, you wanted to deal with that, and, like, you wanted to be, like, to me, I feel like she wanted to be with him, and she wanted to commit to him because, like, when people go through a breakup, a hard breakup, you know, because obviously she was with Offset a long time, had kids with, and they move too fast. That looked like a move too fast type of situation.
And you understood the assignment, and when it got thrown in your face, now you want to react to it? Man, come on, man. Don't act like that now. Like, you knew what it was. And I'm not saying that's right, but you knew what it was. You know what I'm saying? Like, should he have, out of respect, not invited her? Like, out of respect, he probably should have put her in a different role.
You shouldn't be there. There's no reason. The baby's a newborn. Why is the baby there as a newborn? Was she sitting with the mom, too? Yeah, I think so. Like, that's a newborn baby. The baby don't need to be at the game. Go sit down, girl. Like, and that's another thing, though. Everybody wants so much clout with all this stuff, and it's just like, I don't care about none of that.
Cardi don't need that either. So for her, it's just like, yeah. She don't need it, but she... She don't need that clout.
Cardi B is cracking. She don't need it, but, like, she accepted it. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? At the end of the day... a woman, regardless of her status, regardless of her public limelight, the man is the man. He's still the man. Just because you famous, I'm Steph Diggs. You ain't about to be looking down on me or running the shit. He run the shit. And he gonna do it how he want it.
And she understood that at first. But now, when it came to the biggest stage, like, don't do that. Don't leave. Don't, like, come on, don't do that.
You don't do that. Period. Like, I'm not going for that. That's embarrassment.
All of it is embarrassing. This is my thing. You went for the other shit, but you ain't going for this. Like, come on. Make it make sense.
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Chapter 5: How does the discussion about celebrity relationships unfold?
Trust me. Like, you don't know. Men pillow talk and say all type of stuff to women and give them a false reality and hope that something is different. And so you don't know that. He might have been consoling her the whole time, like, I don't like these women. It wasn't like that. It was a mistake. I don't mess with them. This is not giving that. Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
And now, as the relationship progresses, she's finding out that that's a lie.
So, yeah. From the beginning, when they got together, people was like, why are you, why is Cardi with him?
Yeah, people say that all the time, though, about people. People talk down on people all the time. And just, like, people can be like, why are you with this person? That person can be like, baby, don't believe that. Like, I'm not on that. I love you. You know me. You know how I am. Like, so, niggas say it all the time. So, man be behind closed doors.
Don't listen to a man's words. Listen to his actions. Yeah, 100%. Listen to his actions. Because you can see words, but if you see the actions tell more than the words. Yeah, 100%. Because you can fool me by what you say to me. But you can't fool my eyes. You know what I'm saying? You can never fool my eyes. You can... Don't go for what your ears tell you. Go by what your eyes tell you.
Because your eyes is going to be the most loyal thing to you. Yeah, 100%. Your ears are going to lie to you all the time. So remember that. Yeah, remember what you see, you believe. What you see in the actions is really what it is.
Yeah, 100%. What you hear... I don't know. So yeah, what you see people doing, that's what it is. And I think that everyone needs to follow that advice 100%. So speaking of actions, 21 Savage was walking. Did you see the video of him?
Yeah.
Walking and hugging that wall.
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Chapter 6: What role does emotional vulnerability play in relationships?
Hug that wall, baby. And so Lotto posted on her story, to the window, to the wall.
she posted the song like yeah my man don't play that's why see and this is why lotto can so confidently be like my man my man my man because she's the one who created that my man my man my man because that's why a woman feels like that when they know their man don't play they're not gonna embarrass them in public they're not gonna make them look stupid they're not gonna be extra friendly with no girl that's how you can feel like my man my man my man my man
Period. And women were reacting like, is this not how my man is? I don't want it. Period. Because he wasn't playing around. He said, I'm not with this.
They both walked through the VIP door and he went to let them know, like, no, I'm over here.
I'm over here, baby. I'm not dealing with this girl.
No, that ain't it.
I'm at the wall with it. Yeah, right. And I feel him. I feel him 100%. So... Ocho Cinco, he said that he... Ocho, the homie Ocho? Yeah, he said that he has a two-kid minimum for women because women with kids keep food in their pantry. He said, well, without kids, they don't have no food in the pantry. That's 100.
Well, without kids, she out here eating... Ramen. And I come, I pull up. Like, she ain't, man, what? I'm rolling with that. I'm rolling. That makes sense.
You rolling with that?
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Chapter 7: How do cultural differences impact perceptions of anger in women?
If they single, if you 40 and up and Plies is looking for you, he know the situation.
Which is what?
That you a little more thirstier than normal. Your standards almost is out the window. And you got like a, you ain't got no room to be choosing. You gotta choose who chose you. A single woman with kids is humbled. You know, and they willing to like go beyond for their man when they got a new man. Okay. Yeah, and that's what he's saying.
Like, they're going to go more beyond because they know their situation because I'm like, dang, you know, it's cool. I feel that.
Okay. So Idris Elba, he talks about his definition of romance, and he said that he likes encouraging his wife when she has moments of doubt. He loves being the arm in the ear that tells her you got this, and he says that romance, that's what romance is to him. like when she hugs him and affirms him, that's what he views as romantic. What do you feel? That's his views.
I'm saying, do you agree with that? Do you feel like, what is your definition of romance?
All right, so my definition of romance is doing the things you don't normally do. Mm-hmm. That's more romance, because romance is not an everyday thing, because when it's everyday, it's not romance, because that's like... You know, we're used to that. I hug you every day. I kiss you every day or whatever. I open the door. That's not romance.
Romance is like something different that you don't normally do. You go out the pocket like, you know, rose petals or you get her. You're just doing something that's not normally what we do.
Yeah.
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Chapter 8: What advice do the hosts give about navigating red flags in relationships?
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What's your idea of a romance? Like, what is romantic to you? You know what I'm saying? What's romantic? What does romantic mean? I feel like for me... Like, if a man don't normally open the door and he open the door, is that romantic?
No. I feel like... No, it's not.
I feel like... That is romantic, though.
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