J.P. Nerbun is the founder of TOC Culture System, a mentor, writer, coach, and sports consultant. He’s worked with numerous football teams in helping them install a culture system. Today he shares insight into some of the best practices in implementing a culture system, repeating buy-in, building relationships, doing accountability and discipline in a productive way, and player development plans. Show Notes: -Background -Book -Systems approach -What drives the system -Change starts with the coach working on himself/herself -Establish, support and enforce the culture -Culture is measured in two ways -Decentralize command -Establish connections and standards -Goal is to have high character, intrisincally motivated individuals -Tips on establishing and strengthening relationships with players -Mike Abrashoff -Listen first and speak last -Empathic listening and intentional one on ones -Leadership council with 1-4 ratio -Delegating to the units -Connecting team beyond position groups -Check-ins and conversations -Motivational interviewing -Put the player in the driver seat for their development -Developing engagement and buy-in =Non-negotiables -The standard review -The player development plan -The one-pager -Google Doc -Implementation intentions -Best practices in dealing with discipline -Fear-based approach doesn’t achieve long-term - Too much permissiveness - empathy without accountability -Consequence as alternative to punishment -Practice is a “get to” not a “got to” -Firm and demanding without being demeaning -Logical consequences -Competitive cauldron -Time spent with New England Patriots - Their intentionality -The Buffalo Bills - leadership council -The Winning Edge https://www.tocculture.com Twitter: @jpnerbun Related Episode: It’s Your Ship - Leadership Lessons with Mike Abrashoff episode: https://soundcloud.com/user-804678956/its-your-ship-leadership-lessons-from-mike-abrashoff-former-commander-of-the-uss-benfold CoachTube Course: Playing Time Systems, Competitive Cauldron, Captain’s Council https://coachtube.com/users/thriveonchallenge?a=ddd391c93af2433281656b763 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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