Welcome to another captivating episode, “Coaching with Mastery & Elegance with Tijen Genco.” In this thought-provoking installment, Tijen and Cynthia welcome Susanna Barlow. Together, they delve into the importance of recognizing behavioral patterns, such as the victim archetype, in coaching clients. Tijen and Susanna bring their unique perspectives to the table, exploring the characteristics of the victim archetype and its impact on individuals and those around them. They also discuss the potential for empathy, compassion, and forgiveness as the highest expressions of power for a victim. Tijen emphasizes the importance of not identifying with the victim's perspective as a coach and gives examples of how the same underlying issue can be present in different scenarios. Susanna elaborates on the four archetypal patterns within the victim that she has observed in her personal work. Tijen and Susanna discussed the role of coaches, therapists, and others alike in helping individuals overcome feelings of powerlessness and trauma. Increasing awareness of the victim archetype, recognizing and naming feelings of powerlessness, and offering an outside perspective to challenge limiting beliefs. The power of language in shifting perspectives and the importance of self-compassion and understanding. Tune in to hear more about four distinct patterns of victimhood: the helpless victim, the self-pitying victim, the entitled victim, and the perpetrator victim, and to understand how these patterns often stem from a lack of self-respect and secure boundaries and how developing self-compassion and developing assertiveness could help individuals break free from these patterns. Tijen shared how archetypal coaching could be a useful tool in identifying and shifting these patterns. References mentioned in this episode include: ⁠Group Mentor Coaching for ICF Credentialing or Credentialing Update • To Explore the Mysteries Within - Guided Journeys to Asklepion for Personal Healing, Growth, Restoration and Rejuvenation • ICF Knowledge Exam Prep Course • Tijen’s Coaching Book About Coaching with Precision and Mastery • Reach Cynthia Lait • Reach Susanna Barlow

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