You did not lose your desire to want more by accident, friend. You shut her down — and maybe not even consciously. At some point, wanting started costing more than it returned. And every smart woman I know eventually made the same calculation: stop wanting equals safety. Less disappointment, less risk.So you did it. And now you're sitting in this life you built wondering why you can't feel desire anymore.Today we're talking about exactly why wanting got expensive — and what it's going to take to make her safe again.In this episode, we're unpacking:➡️ The three reasons wanting gets expensive (and why none of them are your fault)➡️ Why your wanting didn't abandon you➡️ How childhood conditioning, achievement disappointment, and heartbreak quietly shut desire down➡️ The Self-Love Two-Step: three concrete steps to make wanting safe again➡️ Why you can't vision board your way back to a desire that's gone into hidingIf you have been sitting in a life you built and feeling blank where your dreams used to be, this one is for you, friend. Your wanting is not gone. She's just waiting for the signal that it's safe to come home.TIMESTAMPS 00:00 When Wanting Went Quiet00:43 Welcome and What We Cover01:58 My Milestones Yet Empty03:02 How I Silenced Desire04:41 Why Wanting Gets Expensive04:59 Childhood Disapproval Lessons06:05 Milestones That Didn’t Fulfill07:50 Heartbreak Makes Desire Hide09:32 Make Wanting Safe Again11:17 Three Steps to Rebuild Trust13:25 Your Desires Are SacredThis is identity work and desire work for high-achieving women in their 30s and 40s who have checked every box and still feel blank. Women who stopped knowing what they want — not because they're broken, but because wanting got too expensive to keep. This is how Confident and Empowered actually gets built. From the inside out.📹 WATCH ON YOUTUBE Companion video: Why You Don’t Know What You Want Anymore?🎯 FREE RESOURCES✨ FREE Main Character Confidence Checklist Your clarity + confidence game plan to stop shrinking and start showing up like you were born to. 👉 Get the checklist✨ Free Main Character Alignment Call For the woman who's ready to stop circling and start moving. Let's get clear on who you are, what you want, and what's been in the way. 👉 Book Your Free Call🛍️ SHOP THE ERA✨ Main Character Energy Journal Prompts 30 transformational prompts to help you reconnect with your wanting, realign with who you are, and fully step into your Main Character Era. Built for exactly the work we did today. 👉 Get Yours📲 SHARE THE LOVE Don't gatekeep your glow-up:Text this episode to your girlsDrop your favorite quote in the comments on YouTubeTag me @EO_E — I read every single oneYour healing inspires someone else's. Let it ripple. ✨❤️ STAY CONNECTED 📹 New videos DAILY on YouTube: @EO_E 🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday & Thursday 💌 Sunday Letters — your weekly pep talk straight to your inbox. Real talk, Main Character Energy, and the encouragement that actually lands. 👉 Subscribe Here🎵 Music: It's Easy to Love You

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