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Algorithms, accountability and the 'manosphere'—empowering men to be the solution
10 Jun 2026
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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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There's a journey that a lot of guys are taking on the internet these days. It starts with self-improvement videos on YouTube and TikTok, physical fitness, grooming, that kind of thing. And then the social media platform's algorithm develops
figures out pretty quickly that this guy is feeling a little insecure, like a lot of teenage guys do, and is looking for some self-esteem, maybe some self-discipline. The algorithm then tries to sustain his attention by offering him more inflammatory stuff, presented by an influencer in reflector shades who gives them an ideology that blames a whole lot of people
mostly women in general, for their lack of money and status and respect. This is the loose digital ecosystem that's been named the manosphere. And it's leading a lot of people to wonder, really very anxiously, what's going on with men these days? Well, Zach Seidler is here, and he's a man, and so am I. Zach's even got a beard.
Zach is also a clinical psychologist at Melbourne Uni, and he's the director of research at Movember, the men's mental health charity. Zach is particularly interested in men's issues, and he's conducted research into this online world.
There are plenty of people, mothers of young men in particular, who want to know why so many of them are being drawn into the manosphere that alienates them from women. The more important question to ask, Zach believes, is what need is this stuff meeting? Hello, Zach. Hi, Richard. How did this manosphere evolve over time? It seems to be a recent thing or is it?
Has it been with us and it's only just being seen properly for its effects now? How did it evolve?
Well, I think that most of these ideologies are not new and any woman would know that this has been around since, you know, day dot. These ideas of male supremacy, of...
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Chapter 2: What journey are young men taking on the internet today?
And so you ended up with these niche groups that were really small and quite unknown previously, And now you're hearing boys and mothers, everyone's talking about incels, for instance, involuntary celibates. The fact that that is a mainstream term is wild to me. We've got stuff like pickup artistry, which used to be a book like The Game.
Chapter 3: How does the algorithm contribute to the manosphere phenomenon?
I remember that, yeah. Lots of men were. But the ability for that to become so omnipresent in our culture, that is because the way in which these men worked out how to clip things their content up, to be able to provide it in a way that was going to actually really connect with young guys who were saying, how do I do this thing called being a man? How do I understand it?
And why is it not going the way that I'd hoped? And so they start to actually co-opt their fears and anxieties and drive them into a Honestly, a commercial model at the end of the day.
It's pretty full on, this stuff. Like my producer, Maggie, who is a folk musician, when she was researching the manosphere a while back, just did a simple YouTube search. And her whole YouTube feed for months afterwards turned into a sewer, a sewer of this... Really awful stuff, really unpleasant stuff.
And it was a bit like a little doe sort of walking into a meadow somewhere and every lion just went, and it came sort of charging towards her at a great rate of knots. Is this happening as a general thing? Is it really just take the slightest bit of curiosity in the internet to have these influences come charging towards you on the internet?
Well, I think you can look at this across domains. You know, mothers... who are about to have another child, you will see very quickly that their algorithm is going to feed them with all of the crap that they need to buy as a part of that entire model. This is what the algorithm does. It nichely puts you into these very specific groups and it says... this is where we're going to lead you.
This is the pathway and there's no way out. And so I think that, you know, Maggie's experience is something that lots of young men feel, which is they go in seeking this understanding of who they are and how they can be, how to really get ripped, get rich and get a girl. Those are largely the three motivations as we see it.
There's a bit of entertainment seeking as well, which I totally understand. And then... very quickly, they are led down this pathway towards content that is extremely transgressive. It's abusive. It's violent. It's radicalizing. And there is no way out. These young guys aren't coming in seeking this stuff. They don't come in seeking misogyny. They leave with it.
So they're not searching why all girls are bitches or anything like that. They're going in for grooming tips or something like that and then the internet leads them down this path. And very, very quickly.
Like the research shows us it takes a number of minutes for someone to – put in the fact that they're a 16-year-old boy, immediately Meta or TikTok is going, okay, I'm putting you in this subcategory and ergo, you want to be seeing this type of stuff. And so it actually locks them in.
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Chapter 4: What is the manosphere and why is it concerning?
Six hours of watching videos instead of going to bars and hanging out with girls. In other words, and actually meeting women as they are in the flesh. Yeah.
This entire ecosystem is directly at odds with its goals, which is you're not going to get ripped, rich or a girl sitting on your phone.
The core of manospheric ideology is this idea called red-pilling. Now, this is a familiar term to a lot of people, but for those who not, who've managed to stay blissfully unaware of what red-pilling is, can you just explain what this means?
I didn't think that I would be referring back to The Matrix over and over again, but it comes from that seminal movie with Neo, Keanu Reeves.
what the Matrix did, there's this idea that there's a red pill and a blue pill and you get a choice and you're going to take one of these pills and the red pill wakes you up to the realities of the world and the fact that for men and boys, the world is against you and we live in a feminized environment and once you take the red pill, you will realize that we are benefiting and bolstering the lives of women and girls and we are fundamentally benefiting
hurting you. We are taking things away from you. We are disempowering you. And so it leads so quickly to grievance because what it's saying is this isn't a notion of equality. This is fundamentally about the fact that you cannot... gain status and succeed if women and girls are as well. And then it expands to marginalized groups, to trans groups, to an understanding of race and ethnicity.
It's a very quick way to go. You are being taken for a ride. You need to wake up to the fact that this world is against you. And this is what many of these influencers do. They talk about it's conspiracy theories, fundamentally. The fact that everyone is out to get you and you need to understand with your tinfoil hat on who those people are and how we're going to take back power.
There's nothing new in this. This is like every conventional extremist ideology that says, wake up, this is how the world really works, which is a vast conspiracy theory, a conspiracy that's directed against you. And that's true for Nazism, communism, Islamic extremism, on and on it goes. Is there something cult-like about this phenomenon?
Oh, definitely. It's all about the in-group. And something that I think a lot about is young men are floundering. They have this feeling of being out at sea. You know, the idea that they are an island unto themselves in many ways. And without these anchor points, without feeling like there is something that they can be a part of, it's really at odds with their desire to be a successful man.
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Chapter 5: How has masculinity evolved and what are its implications?
If you present the same version of yourself in all of those, you're not going to succeed. we're not asking for men to be chameleons, but we do need a level of flexibility. And I think that what this content is doing, it's saying you must be hard all the time, cut yourself off from your emotional inner world.
And my entire career has been built on trying to actually get men to understand that the greatest strength comes from self-knowledge, comes from understanding who you are and where you're going. Because right now, these men are blind to their own world. They're blind to the fact that they are being taken for a ride.
That's kind of the greatest contradiction here is that supposedly they've taken the red pill and they've opened up this great understanding of what's happening to them. But in fact, what they've done is they've isolated themselves from the real depths of reality. And so the hardness is very attractive because... Softness is this territory that is extremely unknown.
It seems dangerous for many of them.
There's that old saying that says, you know, it's easy to hate your enemy until the day you perceive through a chink in their armour the sight of something nailed down and in torment. What's the price, the psychological price a young guy pays for adopting this mask of hardness around the clock for every waking hour?
what we witness is really this inability to actually comprehend their own emotional world. They suppress much of their emotional baggage in many ways. And this pushing down, this suppression over time, you know, across the board in the psychological literature, you know that the more you push something down, the more likely it is to reappear and calcify into something much more dangerous.
And so we see men, sadly... avoiding much of their difficulties, their thoughts and feelings. They actually don't have access to much of it. And so with further suppression leads to the bucket overflowing. That's why when we look at things like male depression, you don't often see it as this internalized sadness and hopelessness and worthlessness that we think of depression to be.
It's often this externalizing, taking things out on the world. It's risk-taking, it's violence, irritability and frustration with things because they are actually not in touch with what's happening and how they're feeling about things.
There's nothing new in this, is there? Young guys have always sought transgression. And a lot of the appeal of these online videos is people like Andrew Tate are saying things that are socially completely unacceptable. I won't repeat those phrases here. I think we know what they are. But there's a kind of a delicious thrill and almost humour... in being transgressive, you know.
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