S25E13: How to Balance Independence and Intimacy in a Relationship

Hey lady! As you continue to think deeply about how you want your life to look and feel, have you considered how much intimacy plays a part in your relationships? This week, Dr. Dom and Terri expound on the ways intimacy serves as the bedrock for fulfilling relationships of all stripes. Whether it’s platonic, familial, or romantic; intimacy can serve as the thread that brings depth and realness to your relationships. And, we’re not talking just talking about sex – Terri and Dr. Dom don’t just put the tip in with their insights, they go all the way to make sure you have an arsenal of tools to get you the relationship you desire.Finding a level of interdependence, defined as partners recognizing and valuing the importance of the emotional bond they share while maintaining a solid sense of self within the relationship dynamic, may seem counterintuitive to building a healthy unit but it is in fact what keeps the spice in the relationship and the sense of self that resides in you. Tap into the Aftershow for more tips and real-life examples of how to make your relationships thrive. Consent and healthy boundaries are a recipe for intimacy that will knock your socks off in more ways than one! How to Build an Interdependent Relationship 1. Knowing what you like and what matters to you2. Not being afraid to ask for what you want3. Spend time with friends and family4. Continue pursuing your personal goals5. Be mindful of your values6. Make time for hobbies and interests7. Don't be afraid to say "no"8. Don't keep yourself small or hidden to please others  Quote of the Day:“If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.”  — Osho  Goal Map Like a Pro WorkbookCultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  Resources:Dr. Dom’s Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOC  Where to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

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