You might feel focused—checking boxes and making moves—but why does it seem like life still goes in circles? After 20,000 hours of coaching, I’ve learned focus itself isn’t the problem—you’re focused, just on the wrong things: urgent distractions instead of what truly matters. Today I'm ranting a little, laughing a lot, and showing you how to focus on what actually counts. Lean in. This one might sting a little, but it'll set you free. Featured Story A guy I've been getting to know at a discussion group came up to me last night. Said he was worried when my podcast was late on Monday. Almost texted me — but we hadn't known each other long enough. Then he told me something that cracked me open. He said, "Scott, I'm a self-motivated business owner. I didn't think I needed a boost. But I started listening, and now I feel like you're with me all day long." That moment reminded me why I keep showing up—not because I have it all together. In fact, I’m a hot mess. But maybe that’s exactly what makes this work real. Important Points The issue isn’t lack of focus—it's focusing on what's urgent, not what matters most. Ask yourself: Are you the firefighter or the arsonist? Many of us spend our days putting out fires that we set ourselves. You are 100% in charge of every single action you take or don't take. Nobody on this earth has power over you. Memorable Quotes Life is so much more complex than just the stuff you think you've got to get done. What matters is buried deep inside. You are the cause of all this stuff. Whatever's good, whatever's bad, every single thing in your life — it's you. At the end of your life, you will wonder why you didn't focus on what was important to you a whole lot sooner. Scott's Three-Step Approach Look in the mirror and admit you're the cause of the craziness, the fires, and the focus problems in your life. Once you own that, get quiet and identify the one important thing buried deep down that actually matters to you. Zero in on that one important thing, ignore distractions, and always return your focus when you drift. Chapters 0:37 - Feeling a little frisky with my wife out of town 1:17 - The text he almost sent me when I was late on Monday 2:32 - Why I'm a hot mess and freaking proud of it 4:20 - You're focused on the wrong thing all day long 6:48 - Fireman or arsonist — which one are you? 7:53 - Look in the mirror and admit you're the cause 11:15 - Why you'll wonder at the end of your life Connect With Me Search for the Daily Boost on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify Interested in more insights? Sign up for Notes From Scott at https://notesfromscott.com to get personal updates and ideas that often become podcast episodes. Stay connected, and don't miss out. Email: [email protected] Main Website: https://motivationtomove.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/dailyboostpodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/heyscottsmith Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/motivationtomove Facebook Group: https://dailyboostpodcast.com/facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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