Ever walked into something confident you had it figured out, only to realize you were barely getting started? Most of us have been told that showing up is half the battle. And sure, getting to the starting line matters — a lot of people never make it that far. But I've shown up plenty of times and gone home empty-handed. Watched others do the same. The missing piece isn't more time on the calendar — it's what you bring when you get there. Today I'm digging into real commitment and why 50-50 was never going to cut it. Featured Story I was twenty years old, standing in the back of a church in a suit that didn't quite fit, about to get married for the first time. I'd spilled Polar Cup — that frozen lemonade they sell in South Florida — all over my tuxedo. Not a great start. My pastor pulled me aside and asked, "Do you know what makes marriage work?" I didn't hesitate. "It's a 50-50 thing. We both show up half the time, that's 100%." He just smiled — not the kind that says you're right. "Success in anything is a 100-100 thing," he said. That line stuck with me for decades, probably because life kept proving him right. Important Points Showing up gets you to the starting line, but commitment is what walks you through the door and keeps you moving. When you hold back effort, your brain decides the goal isn't worth it — and pulling back gets easier every time. Pick one area where you're coasting at 60% and ask yourself what giving 100% would look like for just one week. Memorable Quotes "Showing up opens doors, but commitment walks you through them and keeps you moving when nobody's watching or clapping." "Most people hedge — enough to say they tried, but not enough to actually find out what they're really capable of." "You don't need more information — you need a better plan. Stop splitting yourself between your goals and the exit." Scott's Three-Step Approach Pick one area of your life where you know you're holding back and name what 100% commitment would actually look like. Stop negotiating with yourself about how much effort to put in — commit fully for one week or to one specific project. Notice how full effort changes not just your results but how you see yourself — then carry that into the next thing. Chapters 0:02 - Feeling good again after a rough month of ick 1:30 - A Polar Cup stain and some pastor's wisdom 3:26 - Why showing up is only half the equation 4:31 - When goals become negotiations with yourself 6:28 - The effort heuristic and what holding back costs 8:56 - How to stop coasting and go all in this week Connect With Me Search for the Daily Boost on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify If you enjoy the Daily Boost, you might like Notes From Scott. A few mornings each week, I send a short note with something I've been thinking about or noticing lately. Sometimes those ideas turn into podcast episodes later. You can sign up at https://notesfromscott.com. Email: [email protected] Main Website: https://motivationtomove.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/dailyboostpodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/heyscottsmith Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/motivationtomove Facebook Group: https://dailyboostpodcast.com/facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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