Ever walk into a room where you feel like an outsider? That happened to me last night. Sitting around a table with people who could quote chapter and verse while I barely knew where to start, I had a choice — shrink back or step up. What came out of that moment was a reminder of something I've taught for years about how people actually change their minds. If you've ever tried to persuade anyone of anything — a customer, a kid, a spouse — today's episode hands you the key. Press play and let's dig in. Featured Story Last night I sat down with my small group — a Bible study I got talked into because my son-in-law Joel called it "a discussion." Sneaky. I don't know the book the way these folks do. I've barely read it. So there I was, waiting for the Bible nerds to ace me with questions I couldn't answer. Then something shifted. I looked around the table and realized it was just people. Younger, older, families, jobs. Just people. The room went quiet, and I had to decide — sit in my discomfort or open my mouth. You know me. I opened my mouth. And what I said next surprised even me. Important Points When you feel like the underdog in a room, someone else feels even more out of place than you do. Speak up anyway. People don't change their minds because of facts. They change because of experience — layered, real, memorable. Every interaction today is shaping somebody's beliefs — whether you're walking in aware or asleep at the wheel. Memorable Quotes When you feel out of place in a room, I can promise you, someone else there feels more out of place than you do. If something's working out, don't break it. Just stick with it. And if it's not working out, you'll part anyway. Everything you do today is an experience. And every experience forms somebody's belief system — yours and theirs. Scott's Three-Step Approach Stop arguing facts. Remember you're dealing with a person whose beliefs came from experience, not information. Build a multilayered experience next — multiple touches, emotions, and moments packed into one window of time. Let that experience do the work. New beliefs reshape their values and, eventually, the identity they walk in with. Chapters 0:15 - Slipping into an old pair of comfortable Levi's 1:29 - Sticking around at a church for two and a half years 3:16 - Sneaky invitation to a Bible study small group 5:34 - Realizing they're just people around the table 8:12 - Where your beliefs, values, and identity come from 11:58 - Thirty experiences in one night, dating my wife 13:07 - Every interaction forms somebody's beliefs Connect With Me Search for the Daily Boost on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify If you enjoy the Daily Boost, you might like Notes From Scott. A few mornings each week, I send a short note with something I've been thinking about or noticing lately. Sometimes those ideas turn into podcast episodes later. You can sign up at https://notesfromscott.com. Email: [email protected] Main Website: https://motivationtomove.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/dailyboostpodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/heyscottsmith Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/motivationtomove Facebook Group: https://dailyboostpodcast.com/facebook Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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