If he wants you, he'll come get you
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What does 'If he wants you, he'll come get you' really mean for early-stage dating?
If he wants you, he is gonna come get you. If a man wants you, he's gonna come get you. On today's episode, we're gonna be discussing this and we're gonna give you some story times as usual. And also I'm going to remind you of your fucking power as a confident, beautiful, gorgeous, stunning goddess for all of the women listening to this episode today. Welcome to List. If you're new here, my name is List Boss, and I've been doing this podcast for about three years now, which is insane. I started this podcast after going through a breakup, and I was going through a lot of my life at the time. It was 2022, and I remember just feeling so lost. I didn't know where my power went. because I was in a relationship that drained my life force.
I wasn't myself, and I started podcasting about it. I started podcasting about my life and my dating life, and it slowly developed into my career, which is really interesting and really amazing, and I'm super grateful to be here. If you're new here, drop a comment, say hi, welcome to Lists. This idea has been brewing in my mind since yesterday and I tried to record it in my house, but then there was construction and I was like, okay, I need to just get into the studio and do it properly because it's a really important topic. If a man wants you, he's going to come get you, period, point blank. I get it if you're married and you're super committed and you're older and there are financial differences, whatever.
I'm not talking about you guys, okay? I'm talking about when you are in the initial stages of dating and when you are looking for the right person, when you're looking for a man to court you and get into a relationship, to be doing all of the work and chasing as a woman is not necessarily a good idea. And I'm gonna tell you why. A man should come and get you because it puts you in your divine feminine energy. you know that you've seduced him. Okay, I was reading this book called The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It's pretty good. I mean, there are parts of it I don't necessarily agree with because I don't believe in manipulation necessarily, but your energy should be an energy of seduction. If you're looking to pull in the right man in his masculine energy, you wanna feel pursued, chased.
You shouldn't be using your precious divine goddess energy to chase down a man, to make him want you, to be posting for him, to react to you. Your energy should be so grounded within yourself that the right man with the right energy will rise to meet you and court you and take you into his arms and say, I want you. He should be able to be brave enough to court you. Now, I also want to say that if you are the type of woman that likes to initiate and you are a bold, confident, strong woman and you like to initiate conversation, it can work. However, I will say that if you do initiate, he should take it from there. So if you decide to send the DM first, he should take it from there. Like he should take the reins from there because some men may not know that you're interested, which is fine.
And they may pull back a little if they don't know you're interested, which is fine. But once you give that initiation, once you give him the green light, he should take charge. Period. This is really for the women who feel like they're currently in chasing mode or they are feeling a man pull back and they're trying to get their attention again. We're not doing that. Okay, you should not be doing that. You should not be trying to get a man to like you because what ends up happening is even if it does work temporarily, you are giving away your power and it ends up becoming a very draining situation. Your energy should feel like a luxury to people where they have to earn the access to date you, to be with you, to earn the right to love you properly.
You can't be just throwing around your energy freely, doing whatever it is you want to do with guys and then expecting them to fall in love with you and then get upset over When they're ghosting you or they're disappearing on you or they're not putting in the effort that you expected.
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Chapters
4 chapters
1
What does 'If he wants you, he'll come get you' really mean for early-stage dating?
0:00–7:36
2
Why is using your 'divine feminine' energy instead of chasing dating prospects important?
7:36–11:10
3
When is it okay for women to initiate and what should happen next?
11:10–21:21
4
How can you tell if a man is genuinely interested versus just being casual?
21:21–31:21