RIGHT PERSON WRONG TIME
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Do I believe in the “right person, wrong time” or divine timing?
right person wrong timing do i believe in this concept of meeting the right person but at the wrong time i'm going to give you a full-out story time of my personal experience with this and i'm going to tell you the lessons i've learned about the right person wrong timing and my take on it because a lot of you are going through a season right now apparently where you're meeting these people and it feels like it's the right person, but it's the wrong time. You feel like you've met the love of your life, but you're on two totally different timelines, two totally different stages of life, or just two different pages, and you can't ever get on the same page, or that's what it seems like. To really understand this concept of the right person, wrong time, we have to understand that there are no coincidences in life.
I'm a very spiritual person and I truly believe that there are no coincidences in life. People come into our lives for a reason. They come into our lives to teach us more about ourselves, to teach us valuable lessons and to show us parts of ourselves that we may need to discover. I believe every single relationship that I've ever been in has taught me something about myself and has built and strengthened my character in one way or another, even if it felt impossible, difficult, even if it felt painful. even if there was loss involved, even if there was a breakup involved. I always look at the glass half full when it comes to my breakups, my relationships, and the people that I've encountered in my lifetime.
Now let's get into it, okay? Do I believe in the right person, wrong time? The short answer is yes, because I believe in divine timing. I never like to phrase it as right person, wrong time. I truly believe that there is such thing as divine timing. Now, what does divine timing really mean? The universe knows and will conspire the right timing and orchestrate the right timing with the right person if it's truly meant to be. There are no mistakes. If it's the wrong time with a specific person, it means one of you needs to grow or both of you need to grow and evolve your characters in order to come back together stronger and build a permanent, solid, lasting relationship.
I'm going to give you a personal story time of a situation that I was in a couple of years ago with someone who I considered the right person, wrong time.
I have no idea if he feels this way, but I know from my personal experience and perspective and where I was currently operating at at that point in my life, I felt like he was a very significant chapter of my life and it was really brief, but it was really powerful. And I'm going to share what I learned from that experience. So a few years ago, I was coming out of a four-year relationship and that relationship destroyed my self-esteem. If you've been in a very toxic relationship before and you're coming out of that relationship, you know that feeling where you feel insecure, you feel knocked down, you don't feel like yourself and you feel like your head's above water trying to build your self-esteem again.
For me, this breakup was something that really rocked me. It was a four-year relationship, so it was very long and we had lived together for a period of time and we had built this life together that felt like home. So when you feel like everything has been ripped away from you, you feel very unstable and unsure of your identity. There was just so much going on at this period of my life, and it wasn't very pleasant, to say the least. It was really, really hard for me. At the same time, my career was at its peak. My podcast was popping off. There was so much going on, both good and bad, but it just felt very chaotic and tumultuous. And I wasn't myself. Point blank, I wasn't myself. I was very emotionally unstable because of the breakup and because of everything I had experienced throughout that relationship.
I knew that my brain wasn't in the right place. and I wasn't really liss, okay? To make a long story very short, at the end of my breakup, I initially wanted to go to Bali to heal.
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Chapters
4 chapters
1
Do I believe in the “right person, wrong time” or divine timing?
0:00–9:42
2
What personal breakup led to a trip that changed everything?
9:42–22:02
3
How did an unexpected London night lead to meeting someone significant?
22:02–31:55
4
Why did past relationship baggage prevent an authentic connection?
31:55–32:59