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Beige Flags: Are You Addicted to Chaos?
30 Jun 2025
Are beige flags low-key warning signs of emotional chaos, self-deception, and pattern-level dysfunction? In this episode, I dive into what beige flags are and why they matter way more than you think. I break down the five brain pattern types that drive these subtle behaviors and why what you call annoying is often a subconscious survival strategy in disguise. I talk about chaos addiction, relationship sabotage, and why your brain keeps labeling stable people as boring. I also share tips to spot performative behaviors, manage the “ick” response, and use pattern opposition to rewire your attraction style. SponsorsHealing Sauna – Get $100 off with code BGHEAL at healingsauna.comHighlights00:00 What is a beige flag?05:15 The six most common beige flags.10:45 The 5 five brain pattern types that drive beige flag behavior.16:30 Why being “too chill” might be a trauma response.22:45 What happens when two trauma patterns fall in love?27:30 The difference between dysfunctional polarity and true polarity in a relationship.33:30 What is synaptic plasticity?37:00 How to rewire the “ick” response and stop pushing away the healthy ones.40:00 The toxic patterns in the movie It Ends With Us.ResourcesIs it a Beige Flag? Or are you addicted to chaos? Download the free resource HERE!Order your copy of Your Brain Is A Filthy Liar HERE.Get YOUR Brain Pattern Map HEREUse code “BGHEAL” for $100 OFF my favorite portable infrared sauna - go to healingsauna.comJoin the Decoded Community HERE for exclusive content, live recordings, and asynchronous learning experiences to go deeper on topics like this episode!FollowBizzie: @bizziegoldBreak Method: @breakmethod
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