Express Yourself Black Man

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 146 with Dr. Rose

29 Dec 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 146) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 146: Why Black Men feel like we’re Never Doing Enoug...

Ep. 146: Why Black Men feel like we’re Never Doing Enough with Dr. Rose Moten

22 Dec 2025

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In XYBM 146, I sit down with Dr. Rose Moten, a renowned psychologist and trauma healing specialist, to discuss the challenges Black men face when it c...

Ep. 145: Why you shouldn’t let your Trauma keep you from God with Vincent Casey

01 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 145, I sit down with Vincent Casey, a dedicated minister and relationship mediator, to discuss his profound journey from experiencing church h...

XYBM Clips: Every Black man can relate to this

26 Nov 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 144) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi" —...

XYBM Clips: Black therapist explains why Black men say “I’m good” when we’re not

25 Nov 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 144) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi" —...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 144 with Odi

24 Nov 2025

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Ep. 144: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 2) with Odi

17 Nov 2025

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In XYBM 144, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his thi...

XYBM Clips: A lot of Black men feel invisible

12 Nov 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" —...

XYBM Clips: Nobody talks about why so many Black men are angry

11 Nov 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" —...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 143 with Odi

10 Nov 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 143) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi" —...

Ep. 143: Why are BLACK MEN so ANGRY? (Part 1) with Odi

03 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 143, I sit down with Professor Odi — a psychotherapist doing incredible work with Black men in our community @blackmansafehaven. For his thi...

XYBM Clips: You can’t have success without pain

30 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Conn...

XYBM Clips: Stop feeling guilty for outgrowing people

29 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Conn...

XYBM Clips: Don’t punish your kids for doing this

28 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Conn...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 142 with Elliott Connie

27 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 142) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 142: "Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Conn...

Ep. 142: Why EVERY BLACK MAN needs HOPE with Elliott Connie

20 Oct 2025

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In XYBM 142, I sit down with Elliott Connie — a psychotherapist, author, and podcaster helping people heal through solution-focused brief therapy. W...

XYBM Clips: Ask yourself these questions before getting in a relationship

15 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 141) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 141: How to Heal so you can build Healthy Relationship...

XYBM Clips: This is how you can support a veteran in your family

14 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 141) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 141: How to Heal so you can build Healthy Relationship...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 141 with James Harris

13 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 141) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 141: How to Heal so you can build Healthy Relationship...

Ep. 141: How to Heal so you can build Healthy Relationships with James Harris

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 141, I sit down with James Harris — licensed mental health professional, Army veteran, and founder of Men to Heal. We dive deep into the ong...

XYBM Clips: This is how he knew his wife was the one

02 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 140) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 140: Why Black Men don’t trust the Healthcare System...

XYBM Clips: Black man, take a nap!

01 Oct 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 140) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 140: Why Black Men don’t trust the Healthcare System...

XYBM Clips: Black man, not sleeping enough could lead to this

30 Sep 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 140) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 140: Why Black Men don’t trust the Healthcare System...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 140 with Dr. Forde

29 Sep 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 140) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 140: Why Black Men don’t trust the Healthcare System...

Ep. 140: Why Black Men don’t trust the Healthcare System with Dr. Forde

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 140, I sit down with Dr. Michael H. Forde, Director of Health Equity at Aetna Better Health of Maryland, for a powerful conversation on health...

XYBM Clips: This is why most Black men stay quiet about their emotions

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 139) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 139: Why 'Being a Man' is leading to Depression in Bla...

XYBM Clips: This is why so many Black men are depleting themselves

16 Sep 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 139) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 139: Why 'Being a Man' is leading to Depression in Bla...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 139 with Jason Rosario

15 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 139) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 139: Why 'Being a Man' is leading to Depression in Bla...

Ep. 139: Why “Being a Man” is leading to Depression in Black Men with Jason Rosario

08 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 139, I sit down with Jason Rosario, founder and CEO of The Lives of Men and host of the Yahoo! News original series 'Dear Men.' Jason opens up...

XYBM Clips: This is why I love my fiancée so much

04 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 138) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 138: What it takes to Build a Life you Love with Your ...

XYBM Clips: Her parents flew him out

03 Sep 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 138) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 138: What it takes to Build a Life you Love with Your ...

XYBM Clips: Sometimes the trauma is God’s way of calling you to Him

02 Sep 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 138) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 138: What it takes to Build a Life you Love with Your ...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 138 with Durelle Bailey

01 Sep 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 138) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 138: What it takes to Build a Life you Love with Your ...

Ep. 138: What it takes to Build a Life you Love with Your Person with Durelle Bailey

25 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 138, I sit down with Durelle Bailey, a motivational creator passionate about lifestyle, travel, and financial empowerment, for an inspiring co...

XYBM Clips: This is how Black men can create safety for Black women

21 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 137) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 137: How to be a Man they can Submit to with Wolf Tayl...

XYBM Clips: That breakup might be the best thing that ever happened to you

20 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 137) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 137: How to be a Man they can Submit to with Wolf Tayl...

XYBM Clips: This is what no one tells you about failure

19 Aug 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 137) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 137: How to be a Man they can Submit to with Wolf Tayl...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 137 with Wolf Taylor

18 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 137) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 137: How to be a Man they can Submit to with Wolf Tayl...

Ep. 137: How to be a Man they can Submit to with Wolf Taylor

11 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 137, I sit down with Wolf Taylor, an engineer at the largest Black-owned podcast studio, WTF Media Studios, and the host of the 'Half Way Up' ...

XYBM Clips: Black man, you have to STOP

07 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 136) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 136: How to Start Healing when you come from the Stree...

XYBM Clips: Black man, stop projecting your pain onto women

06 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 136) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 136: How to Start Healing when you come from the Stree...

XYBM Clips: “My mom was the first woman to ever break my heart.”

05 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 136) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 136: How to Start Healing when you come from the Stree...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 136 with AJ McQueen

04 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 136) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 136: How to Start Healing when you come from the Stree...

Ep. 136: How to Start Healing when you come from the Streets with AJ McQueen

28 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 136, I sit down with AJ McQueen, the soulful entrepreneur and artist who has evolved his lyricism, consciousness, and personal experiences int...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 135 with Kizzle

21 Jul 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 135) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 135: Why I Proposed — Advice Every Black Man needs t...

Ep. 135: Why I Proposed — Advice Every Black Man needs to Hear

14 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 135, I share my personal journey of finding true happiness and fulfillment through my relationship with Naima, navigating the ups and downs of...

XYBM Clips: Black man, listen to this if you are struggling right now

09 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 134) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa”...

XYBM Clips: Black man, never look for a partner to do something for you that you can’t already do for yourself

08 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 134) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa”...

XYBM Clips: This is why we need affirmations from our fathers

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 134) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa”...

Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 134, I sit down with Juju Fontaine, the community-builder and founder of HuCapital, for an inspiring conversation on Black fatherhood, the evo...

XYBM Clips: This Black man shares what would say to his dad that passed away

26 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lin...

XYBM Clips: Black man, listen to this if you are struggling right now

25 Jun 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lin...

XYBM Clips: A Black man opens up about grieving the loss of his father

24 Jun 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lin...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 133 with Jeff Lindor

23 Jun 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lin...

Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor

16 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the signifi...

XYBM Clips: Stop underestimating your kids

12 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose...

XYBM Clips: Kids don’t need too many choices, they need guidance

11 Jun 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose...

XYBM Clips: Every adult around your child is either building or breaking them

10 Jun 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 132 with J.R

09 Jun 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 132) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose...

Ep. 132: How to raise Great Kids by Fathering with Purpose with J.R

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 132, I sit down with JR Rivera, a dynamic leader, author, educator, and former professional athlete, to discuss navigating fatherhood, faith, ...

XYBM Clips: Black man, God will always be the answer

29 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 131) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 131: How can Black Men and Women better Support each o...

XYBM Clips: “I was losing time.” Kira J speaks on the power of sobriety

28 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 131) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 131: How can Black Men and Women better Support each o...

XYBM Clips: This is how you create a safe space for Black women

27 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 131) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 131: How can Black Men and Women better Support each o...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 131 with Kira J

26 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 131) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 131: How can Black Men and Women better Support each o...

Ep. 131: How can Black Men and Women better Support each other with Kira J

19 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 131, I sit down with Kira J, a powerful poet and writer known for her raw, heartfelt pieces on healing, love, and personal growth. Her work, i...

XYBM Clips: A lot of Black men think they’re healed because they’re distracted

15 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 130) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 130: How Black Men are Impacted by Mother Wounds with ...

XYBM Clips: Wounded people, wound people

14 May 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 130) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 130: How Black Men are Impacted by Mother Wounds with ...

XYBM Clips: “A lot of the choices I made in my failed marriages was from my mother wounds.”

13 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 130) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 130: How Black Men are Impacted by Mother Wounds with ...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 130 with Pastor Brownlee

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 130) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 130: How Black Men are Impacted by Mother Wounds with ...

Ep. 130: How Black Men are Impacted by Mother Wounds with Pastor Brownlee

05 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 130, I sit down with Pastor Brownlee, a Philadelphia native and entrepreneur who turned down an NFL career to answer his spiritual calling. We...

XYBM Clips: This is a sign of depression in Black men we don’t talk about enough

01 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 129) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build Stronger Black Families with Mel, Dimetri and...

XYBM Clips: Pay attention to the dysfunction in your family

30 Apr 2025

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If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 129) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build Stronger Black Families with Mel, Dimetri and...

XYBM Clips: I owe it to my mom to go hard

29 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 129) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build Stronger Black Families with Mel, Dimetri and...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 129 with Mel, Dimetri and David

28 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 129) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build Stronger Black Families with Mel, Dimetri and...

Ep. 129: How to Build Stronger Black Families with Mel, Dimetri and David

21 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 129, I sit down with my friends Mel, David, and Dimetri for a powerful conversation about growing up in single-parent households and the profo...

XYBM Clips: Every Black man needs a dad like this

17 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 128) from this clip, search for the title: "How to navigate life transitions and things you can't cont...

XYBM Clips: A Black man shares one of the biggest challenges he faced in therapy

16 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 128) from this clip, search for the title: "How to navigate life transitions and things you can't cont...

XYBM Clips: As a man, this is one of the reasons why I need God

15 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 128) from this clip, search for the title: "How to navigate life transitions and things you can't cont...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 128 with Miles Williams

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 128) from this clip, search for the title: "How to navigate life transitions and things you can't cont...

Ep. 128: How to navigate life transitions and things you can't control? with Miles Williams

07 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 128, I sit down with Miles Williams, a dedicated social worker, mental health advocate, and elementary school principal. We dive into his pers...

XYBM Clips: Don’t let a bad break up stop you from finding your person

03 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 127) from this clip, search for the title: "How to heal Complicated Grief with Dr. LaShonda” — it ...

XYBM Clips: This is the first step to healing that many Black men ignore

02 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 127) from this clip, search for the title: "How to heal Complicated Grief with Dr. LaShonda” — it ...

XYBM Clips: “Prayer is a weapon, therapy is a strategy”

01 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 127) from this clip, search for the title: "How to heal Complicated Grief with Dr. LaShonda” — it ...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 127 with Dr. LaShonda

31 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 127) from this clip, search for the title: "How to heal Complicated Grief with Dr. LaShonda” — it ...

Ep. 127: How to heal Complicated Grief with Dr. LaShonda

24 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 127, I sit down with Dr. LaShonda, who specializes in helping Black men heal from invisible wounds. We explore her extensive research on grief...

XYBM Clips: The silent fear Black men carry daily

20 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 126) from this clip, search for the title: "How to turn your Pain into Purpose? with Aaron Green” —...

XYBM Clips: This is why so many men suppress their trauma

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 126) from this clip, search for the title: "How to turn your Pain into Purpose? with Aaron Green” —...

XYBM Clips: “Drugs took my dad away.”

18 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 126) from this clip, search for the title: "How to turn your Pain into Purpose? with Aaron Green” —...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 126 with Aaron

17 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 126) from this clip, search for the title: "How to turn your Pain into Purpose? with Aaron Green” —...

Ep. 126: How to turn your Pain into Purpose? with Aaron Green

10 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In episode XYBM 126, I sit down with Aaron Green, CEO of StruggleMadeMe to discuss his journey of forgiving his father’s killer, overcoming trauma a...

XYBM Clips: Be careful who you take advice from

06 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 125) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build a Healthy Relationship as a Black Man? with M...

XYBM Clips: You need to talk to women

05 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 125) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build a Healthy Relationship as a Black Man? with M...

XYBM Clips: Holding onto that pain from your parents is keeping you stuck

04 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 125) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build a Healthy Relationship as a Black Man? with M...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 125 with Monique

03 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 125) from this clip, search for the title: "How to Build a Healthy Relationship as a Black Man? with M...

Ep. 125: How to Build a Healthy Relationship as a Black Man? with Monique

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 125, I sit down with Monique Lou, a Mental Health Therapist (MHC-LP) specializing in psychotherapy. We dive into the experience of growing up ...

XYBM Clips: Black man, you don’t have to be perfect to be in a relationship

20 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 124) from this clip, search for the title: "What does Research say about Black Love with Nigel” — ...

XYBM Clips: This is what every Black woman needs in a relationship

19 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 124) from this clip, search for the title: "What does Research say about Black Love with Nigel” — ...

XYBM Clips: Stop dating the ‘idea’ of someone and focus on who they are now

18 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 124) from this clip, search for the title: "What does Research say about Black Love with Nigel” — ...

BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 124 with Nigel

17 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 124) from this clip, search for the title: "What does Research say about Black Love with Nigel” — ...

Ep. 124: What does Research say about Black Love with Nigel

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In XYBM 124, I sit down with Nigel Marcellus, a PhD candidate at the University of Kentucky researching Black love, to explore the complexities of Bla...