Why Do Men Lie To Women? w/ Kim Congdon | First Date with Lauren Compton
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What is the “Childless MILF” problem and how does Kim explain it?
I'm so excited to see you tonight.
How did Kim’s encounter with the Underoath‑skater‑boy lead to a wild night out?
What's up, you guys?
Why did Kim discover 16,000 deleted texts and what does that reveal about her dates?
Welcome to another episode of First Date.
What happened when a guy told Kim “I can’t afford you” and how did she respond?
My guest today is back for her second date.
Why do men love to lie and what are Kim’s biggest red‑flag stories?
You can see her on tour everywhere.
How did stalking incidents affect Kim’s dating outlook?
She's got a special out on YouTube called Childless Milf.
Why didn’t he call after a promising conversation and what should you do?
Give it up for Kim Cogden.
Do open relationships really work for men, according to Kim and Lauren?
Thank
you so much. You guys missed it. Right before we started, Lauren looked at the name of my special and was, aw, we do have to get you a man.
No.
Because it is. It is a sad title now. Well, where did the title come from? It was fine a few years ago because me and Sarah Wineshank, we had a podcast together and we nicknamed ourselves Mama and Mommy because we had this joke that we were like together so often that we were like old lesbians. And we're like, hey, Mama. Yeah, Mommy. And then people start calling me Mommy, but I don't have a kid. So then I called myself the childless milk. Does she have a kid? She does not. Well, she has two stepkids now. all right she's not married but she's on her way and they all are together and yeah when you wake up with them i think it feels like real
yeah it is they're there they're in your house
they're raising them
you smell them
yeah so you are you dating anybody i am not dating anyone i'm currently texting one person That's where we're at. It's not good out here. Well, yeah. And with that, I am putting an effort into dating. I don't know if I'm like – I don't think I – I don't purposely go after bad guys. I assume they're good in the beginning because I think people think that. Oh, you just want a bad guy. You need a nice guy. And I'm like, I do go after the nice guys.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Where
did you meet this one person that you're texting?
On Raya. Okay, that's not good. It's not? Okay, well, where am I supposed to meet him? Because I don't like drinking. That's great. Okay. I wish I were like that. Yeah, I mean, I'll drink. I'm not sober, but I don't like it. Kim, you're throwing me through loops here. I'll drink but I fucking hate it. Okay, why do you hate it? It makes me so sick and I'm not like, it's not that I'm a bad drunk, it just actually makes me sick. I don't feel good. Like the hangover part? Even like during it most of the time. I have to have a really good night for me to enjoy the feeling of being drunk or like there's gotta be, like I have to find the perfect drink or I'm just not feeling well. and when that happens when I have those nights and I am drunk I go I get why everyone loves this it's so fun but most of the time it's just not like that for me so I'm not like looking at bars oh my god I told this story recently
And it's bad because the guy messaged me. He's like, did you tell that story on a podcast? No. I might do it again. But recently, I don't care. I don't care. I'm sick of men. Recently, my friend Matt came back from a show and he was like, oh, I have this band with me. Have you heard of Under Oath?
Are you asking me
that? Yeah. Okay, yeah. It's like a big band. They're like, I'm with Under Oath. They're all coming over. They're all super cool. So they all come over. They're all very nice guys. Like all of them were incredibly kind. And then they have this one guy with them who's not part of the band. Turns out he's Avril Lavigne's guitarist.
Okay.
And I'm like, OK, this is such a like high school wet dream. Yeah. Yeah, I know. OK, skater boy. And and him and I start talking at the bar and we're vibing. We're talking. We're hanging out. We're laughing. He's cute. He starts helping me with my New York Times wordle, which is that means something to me. And and then he's like, we're going to a second bar. Do you want to come drinking with us? I don't like drinking and I hate bars. So I was like, no, I'm good. And then so I stay at the bar. And then my friends are like, you should go. This is why you're single. Like a cute guy you were flirting with asked to keep drinking with you. You should like go hang out with him. So I go to the bar. He gets me a Guinness.
We're hanging out. We're playing chess. We're not even playing real chess. There's chess pieces missing. We're making up our own game. For two, three hours, we're like laughing.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the “Childless MILF” problem and how does Kim explain it?
0:00–0:18
2
How did Kim’s encounter with the Underoath‑skater‑boy lead to a wild night out?
0:18–0:19
3
Why did Kim discover 16,000 deleted texts and what does that reveal about her dates?
0:19–0:21
4
What happened when a guy told Kim “I can’t afford you” and how did she respond?
0:21–0:22
5
Why do men love to lie and what are Kim’s biggest red‑flag stories?
0:22–0:24
6
How did stalking incidents affect Kim’s dating outlook?
0:24–0:28
7
Why didn’t he call after a promising conversation and what should you do?
0:28–0:30
8
Do open relationships really work for men, according to Kim and Lauren?
0:30–53:40
Speakers
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