Handing the Shame Back
Episodes
Panel Discussion on CSA issues
30 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have a listen to this episode, we cover off how to first share your story with others, and focus deeply on the court process and what happens within t...
Interview with Neil Harding
28 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Check out this survivor.He is leading the class action against Dilworth college, the wealthiest private school in NZ. 157 survivors and counting.He is...
Tips for supporting survivors #5
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Updates YouTube Channel: Handing the Shame Back
26 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My blog on FlashbacksMy interview with Kelly Wallace, discussing the court system and process for survivorsMadeleine Black, Courage cultivator on YouT...
Kindness
23 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some people use it often, some not at all.Why would you not?So powerful and so easy.Have a listen as to how you can grow this in your own life.Best wi...
IN5D Interview me
22 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Tips for Supporting Survivors #4
20 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Upcoming releases 2
20 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On the show this weekMy interview with Perry Power, live Wednesday 7pm NZ timeMy blog on Endings (live on the channel now)Enjoy everyoneWe are on all ...
Flashbacks
17 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Flashbacks come out of nowhere, are frightening and feel out of our control. In this blog I describe how to recognise them, and even better how to ma...
Upcoming releases
16 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On the show this week:My interview with Rena RomanoMy media spotlight with IN5D, Gregg Prescott and Ali JanesMy blog on AngelsEnjoy everyoneWe are on ...
Interview with Kelly Wallace
14 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Kelly Wallace: Advocate/survivor/speaker. She was also speaker of the month with RAIN in the United States recently.. She is in the middle of ...
Power
10 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Power is interesting. It is powerful in that it shows itself in many different ways.Interestingly power does not necessarily mean the loudest voice in...
Tips for Supporting Survivors
10 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Interview with Perry Power
07 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Perry Power.Survivor, Campaigner and Activist for intra familial abuse. Perry runs two charitable trust organisations. He is an actor, writer and...
Tips for Supporting Survivors #3
07 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Interview with Male Survivors
05 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to my interview with Ken Clearwater and Todd Portsmouth. We discuss ways we can help male survivors cope with the trauma and impact of child s...
Endings
03 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Endings can be hard, ending highlight who we really are.How do we do 'endings' when we feel blindsided or lost?Have a listen and see if ther...
Trigger Warning: Interview with Mark Attwood
02 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Trigger Warning:Warrior, Poet and survivor.Listen to Mark Attwoods view on all things child abuse. https://tmas.tv/marksemaillist https://theMarkAttw...
Interview with Rena Romano
02 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Rena RomanoSurvivor of Sibling Sexual Abuse for decades.Author of His Puppet No More available on amazonGuest on Oprah show 2009Ted Talk Speaker ...
Tips for supporting survivors #2
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Media Interview
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Full interview with Alizeey YeezyWe are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.ins...
Tips for supporting survivors #1
30 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Alizeey Yeezy Interviews Me
27 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
The Four F's
27 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Trauma Responses Revealed. Listen to how the Four F's have helped/continue to help you through trauma. Universally known as Flight or Flight, di...
Maria J McMahon Interviews Me
27 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Maria J McMahon Interviews me.We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instag...
Trigger Warning: Interview with Maria Socolof
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Maria Socolof: survivor of Sibling Sexual Abuse (SSA). Author and founder of Healing from Chronic Pain. See below for her details:My website: www...
Trust
20 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes letting go and Just Trusting can be a real challenge.Trust is really challenging for us #csa survivors. How do we trust when what has happe...
Severe Trigger Warning (TW) Interview with Mary Knight
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Mary Knight is a survivor of maternal sexual abuse including other forms of familial human trafficking, including child pornography produced by her pa...
Ed Squire Interviews Me
17 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Acceptance
15 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It can be really challenging to accept the situation we find ourselves in.None of it is easy, and for us #csa survivors, even more so.However if we ac...
Nigel McFarland Interviews me
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Stephan Neff Interviews me
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Rena Romano Interviews me
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Impact
09 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes we have no idea of the impact we have on others, or even the impact they have on us. We do know the only thing we can control is how we beha...
Balance
04 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes balance is hard to find when we are busy living our lives and coping with our trauma responses.Have a listen to a few suggestions that may h...
Tara Reade interviews me
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Shaun Attwood Interviews me
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Mark Attwood interviews me
02 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We are on all social media platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBackInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/X:...
Dissociation
28 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder why you have spaced out and are not present in your body?dissociation has a part to play.For survivors of #csa it is a pretty common sympt...
Thoughts Matter
24 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When I was young, the only thing I could control was my thoughts. The one thing that could not be destroyed by others was my mind. So, a small part of...
Interview with Madeleine Black
21 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Author of Unbroken One woman journey to rebuild a life 2017 Podcast Channel called Unbroken Healing through storytelling nov 200TedEx talks present...
Spiritual Stuff
15 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel judged because you don't have the same spiritual stuff as others? That they find you lacking in some way?You are not alone. Unf...
EmpowerMe Update
13 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This is about EmpowerMe NZ and the support and resources they provide for #csa survivors in NZ and across the world. They are launching a brand new ...
Coffee & Cocoa Interview me
13 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this session I am interviewed by Denise Mercer and her daughter Cocoa. They co founded @voicesofcoffeeandcocoa on Facebook Sept 2020 and then went ...
Depression
07 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel as tho depression has you in its grip? That there's no help out there for someone like you? You are not alone. Ever. Up to 1...
Boundaries
31 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered why you find yourself saying yes, when all you want is to say No?That you put others first at a bigger cost to you than what you need?Th...
Interview with Denise Mercer
26 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Denise Mercer, fellow CSA Survivor from Michigan.She was subject to abuse from her neighbour for 3 years and then had to face the cold reality th...
Hypervigilance
25 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered why you constantly look around you and aware of who is present and where the exit is? You might be experiencing hypervigilance one of th...
Interview with Laura Eustace
14 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Laura Eustace is a CSA Survivor who spent years feeling anxious and depressed. When she finally uncovered the truth about her past, beginning at the a...
Interview with Louise Nicholas
13 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Louise Nicholas, fellow CSA Survivor.She was New Zealander of the year in 2007 due to her courage and determination in bringing her abusers to ju...
Angels
11 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered why in moments of despair an answer can be provided in the form of a person showing up or through a message or tx? Every considered why ...
Interview with Genisha Morton
07 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Genisha Morton, www.facebook.com/bleuolive, instagram: author_genisha_morton twitter: Mysteriousbluez. Genisha Morton, a single mum who dar...
Finding Hope
04 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like there is no hope out there and that no one gets you?For most of us CSA Survivors that is true and more frequent than we would likeThis ...
Interview with Ed Squire
25 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Ed Squire, the founder of MeTooWhatNow a charity for male and female survivors of child sexual abuse. He does much work to support those ...
TWC Clubhouse
24 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have a listen to TWC Clubhouse founder Denise Mercer who offers a range of facilitators who run groups on specific topics connected to csa. This is a ...
Interview with Ken Clearwater
19 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Ken Clearwater, a champion and activist for male survivors of child sexual abuse. He does much work behind the scenes supporting our brave men wh...
Introduction to the Podcast Series
07 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This channel is dedicated to all those brave fellow 'adult survivors of child sexual abuse'. You are not alone out there, I believe you and ...
Triggers
29 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This blog was written to support Survivors in identifying and managing triggers. They appear in many shapes and sizes, but as survivors we recognise t...
Interview with Anna McGreevy
29 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This is Anna McGreevy, a genuine and strong survivor who has found the courage to speak up and share her story of survival with me.She has suffered ye...
Interview with Susan Miller
20 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Susan Miller, a brave survivor of child sexual abuse from a very young age. Susan has reclaimed her life by devoting herself to helping others th...
Interview with Tamara Waugh
08 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Tamara Waugh. A brave fellow survivor who is doing much to help people in NZ overcome and deal with the impact of child sexual abuse.She is inspi...
Interview with Todd Portsmouth
05 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I am honoured to present this amazing interview by a brave man called Todd Portsmouth. Todd suffered years of childhood sexual abuse and has emerged r...