Should I Stay Or Should I Go

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What is the new “Should I Stay or Should I Go?” format and how do Lucy and Nikki introduce it?

Unknown 0:02
Алісна продакшн. This is Happy Hour with Lucy and Nikki. And if you're easily offended, then this might not be for you.
Lucy Jackson 0:17
For me, the problem lies in the fact that these weren't random women online. They were girls we kind of know. And to make matters worse, worse, they're both girls who haven't always been very nice to me. Oh, oh my God.
Nikki Westcott 0:32
Cheers, babe, so I'm gonna happy hour with Lucy and Nikki. The real life shit you only discuss over a drink. But before we start, a little disclaimer. So
Lucy Jackson 0:40
today we are here for Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Nikki Westcott 0:43
Should
Lucy Jackson 0:44
I stay or Should I Go? Now I'm going to go to the U.S.
Nikki Westcott 0:47
is a new app for us and it's a lot of fun.
Lucy Jackson 0:50
But it is. You guys ride in and basically give us the scenario of your relationship and say. Shy. Should I say or should I go? And for
Nikki Westcott 0:59
Meg, we've all been there. When you're dancing on the tight rope of life relationship, do or don't. You can fucking honestly die with regrets if you stay, and you can die with regrets if you go.
Lucy Jackson 1:11
I've got to say to that is no regret. No
Nikki Westcott 1:14
rugrets.
Lucy Jackson 1:15
I always say. And in your gut, you know, if you are starting to doubt a relationship, there's two reasons why you start to doubt a relationship, right? Right. What are they? Number one. One is feelings and one is like what's going on in front of you. So like you can be like, oh my God, like I'm not sure my boyfriend's a little uh I've noticed we just read the story.

How do the hosts differentiate between feeling‑based doubts and situation‑based doubts in a relationship?

Lucy Jackson 1:42
That's the last story that's in this. It's like, I don't know, I'm starting to get the ick a bit from my boyfriend because he's a bit like Not as like vivacious. Not as fun as me and blah blah blah blah blah. That's like feeling based, like you're starting to feel less into it. Or and
Nikki Westcott 1:59
then you're looking for things.
Lucy Jackson 2:01
On the other hand, you can be like, I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend because he fucking goes out and parties every weekend and I but and I'm like at home crying about it. That's situation because you still want to be with them. Yeah. So there's like two reasons why in life like things can work out. It's like feelings-based or um situation-based. And I reckon as soon as it's feelings-based. It's done.
Nikki Westcott 2:23
Yeah. Cause you're
Lucy Jackson 2:24
situation based, it's you d you have can change.
Nikki Westcott 2:28
Yeah. You still love them. You want it to be a different scenario. But like Feelings based, you're you're looking for a way out. You're edging out. Picking them to pieces.
Lucy Jackson 2:35
I don't know anyone that's been able to edge back in when they've edged out of a relationship. Do you know anyone?
Nikki Westcott 2:41
Yeah.
Lucy Jackson 2:42
Who? Well, like when you
Nikki Westcott 2:43
go
Lucy Jackson 2:44
on a break. Oh yeah, I know heaps of people. When you've started to be like I'm off this I know like five people. Okay. Yeah. I've never been out of comeback from I think my boyfriend's a little bit boring. Well yeah. Which weirdly we kinda got asked about a few times in this episode. Yeah,
Nikki Westcott 3:01
exactly. I think it's like you start to kind of like you said, I think once you're kind of starting to be like this is it you start to really just look for excuses because in life We are so like, you know, risk advert like you almost need to make excuses as to why. Like sometimes you're just not that into it, but you're like, Well, that's actually because he's not driven And it's like, Well, he was driven enough two years ago when you fell in love, you know? Yeah. Oh
Lucy Jackson 3:31
man, I don't know, babe, if it's just the week that I've had or if it's the fact that like we come on here for like hours and hours a week across all of our different fucking podcasts and radio shows talking about this shit. But I'm just starting to be like. Humans are too complicated.
Nikki Westcott 3:47
We're getting more complicated. Right. Where can we strip it all back, take your phones off people? I just want to go
Lucy Jackson 3:53
back to the t the the era of living in a small town, oh, you've got one boy your age, you just date him. It's you don't even if you don't like them, it's a bit arranged marriagey.
Nikki Westcott 4:01
Well, let's get this girl to India. Only ticket doll.

Why do the hosts say that feeling‑based doubts are usually a sign to end a relationship?

Nikki Westcott 4:04
Straight to Mumbai doll. Bollywood wedding, I could see that for you. But like what's meant to be five days. Oh my god, it's meant to be fender.
Lucy Jackson 4:11
We also don't hear me being like, you can't come back from the ink, but we also don't give anything a proper chat.

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